Am I Falling Out of Love

As easily as we fall in love we may also fall out of love. While many people believe the process of falling in and out of love is common in any relationship often it's a sign the relationship is not working out at all.  As painful as it may be it happens and there is more to it than meets the eye. 

The old belief there is someone for everyone does not mean only one. You can fall in love over and over again, more than once and with different people.  It’s true and a good reason to go easy on yourself chalking up a failed romance to one of life's many experiences. Life is too short to be in a failing relationship going nowhere. Understanding the six types of love defines the abilities of others to love you and give you the love actually need.  This gives any love a fighting chance and one you should consider as you enter into future romances.

The person breaking up has suffered through a painful loss of love knowing what the other is about to experience.  This person has experienced the steps of falling out of love, the void of the once treasured bond.  They being the one intune to the break down of the realationship in the first place may well be the more sensitive of the two.  

Why, because they first noted the problems, where hurt by it and know they must cause pain being honest about the lost love all the while questioning if it matters as much to their partner. After all they are the one content with staying in a seriously flawed union.  

There is much to be said for those willing to remain in a loveless realtionship.  No matter what your position, breaking up once you’ve fallen out of love is never an easy thing to do.  

1. When you are alone together do you feel agitated and eager to be apart again
2. Do you become irritable around your partner for no reason
3. Do you find yourself making excuses not to be alone without your partner
4. Have you started lying about where you go or what you do just to prevent including them
5. Do you feel guilty about telling lies yet continue doing so as the alternative is replusive
6. Does it feel uncomfortable and awkward to be alone with your partner
7. Do you no longer have anything to talk about or share with your partner

• Do you feel unhappy in your relationship more as time passes
• Do you feel resentful toward your partner
• Do you find yourself starting arguments over little things or insulting your partner
• Have you started urging your partner to breakup when they complain about your distant behavior

It is difficult and disappointing to fall out of love facing the reality your love won’t last.

If you’ve answered yes to many if not all of the above statements you no doubt are falling out of love. You may in fact be out of love.

The best thing to do is be honest with your partner in order to prevent needless and thoughtless pain by getting on with the break up. You should not stay in a relationship treating your partner in such a manner.

Eventually you will leave. You may wait around and think maybe you’ll fall back in love with them and while this does happen you really should be realistic about your feelings. Staying with someone you no longer love is creating bad love karma for yourself.