One of The Ways to be Happier is to be a Gardener

by 2uesday

For some people happiness is shopping for others it is losing yourself in the jobs that need doing in the garden. Gardening can be a way to feel happier.

There is something magical about a garden, at times it can seem like an almost timeless place. Yet, a garden can also help us to mark time, watching the seasons pass. The different flowers come into bloom, some to set seed and die while others become dormant and then burst into life again. Noticing these changes can make a garden an important part of our lives.

Growing plants and making a garden can be a way to unwind from the stress of modern life styles. If you can make a place that is a haven from what sometimes feels like a mad world; then you have created the perfect garden for yourself and those you wish to share it with. Nurturing plants from tiny seedlings through to beautiful flowers and creating a garden landscape that pleases you, can enhance your day to day levels of happiness.

Creating a Beautiful Garden gives you a special place to be.

Flowering plants, gardens, trees being outside working in or visiting a garden all of these make me feel happier. It is not easy to explain it in words perhaps it is a feeling that you have to experience to understand. 

The best way to describe it is at some point what ever is making you concerned or sad being in a garden surrounded by plants seems to help to lift your mood. I would go so far as to say that sometimes it is possible to actually forget your 'troubles' when you are busy working in a garden.

Temporarily 'setting down the load' of what ever is troubling can be  accomplished in other ways. Hobbies that are relaxing and require dedicated focus, these can be helpful but I believe that they are not the easiest way to unwind.

There is a reason why I believe that gardening is more useful in providing peace of mind and relaxation than most other hobbies. In order to paint or read a book you need a certain level of concentration to start the task. Even if you normally find painting or reading relaxing if you have a lot on your mind you may find it difficult to begin to focus and to settle. Besides reading or painting fixes you to one place, you need to sit still to do them. With gardening you can just wander around the garden and then slowly you will find that you find a task such as a plant that need a little bit of your time and attention. You will not even need to look for something to do, it will present itself to you. It may be something as simple as turning a flower pot so that the flowers on the other side get their turn in the sun. Sometimes,you are presented with a task just have to do such as fill a watering can and water those poor plants that have flopped with the heat. Whatever it is one thing is sure to lead to the next and before you know it you will be working in the garden and planning the next days gardening session.

butterflies add extra color to a well planted garden
butterflies add extra color to a well...
the sculptural center of a cone flower
the sculptural center of a cone flower

Cone flowers.

Verbena bonariensis a tall flowering plant for the garden.

A tall plant with spectacular flowers.
Verbena bonariensis. A tall flowering plant for the summer flower border.

This plant has scented flowers that could be described as purplish-blue or lilac the flowers are held high above the mound of dark green foliage. The flowers are formed on branched stems and are usually produced in profusion in the summer months. This is a plant that will add color and height to the flower border in the flowering period.
Verbena bonariensis is a perennial plant which adds height to the flower border. This delightful plant has lavender colored flower heads that top long sturdy stems that sway in the breeze. This one likes to be planted in a place where it will be in full sun.
This plant is never short of attention from butterflies and bees and hover-flies. Planted at the back of a flower border it sits well next to graceful decorative grasses. Plant more than one and let them self seed as they are said to be a short lived perennial, the seedlings will offer a continuation of this tall elegant flowering plant. This plant flowers in the summer months of July and August and through September to October if the weather is mild.
The great thing about this plant is that it should not need staking or support as the flower stems are reasonably sturdy. In a windy summer you may need to put in two or three garden canes and put garden string around the plant; but most years that will not be needed. You might need to protect it in the winter months depending on the region you live in and the weather conditions that year.
 


 

A garden is a place to escape and enjoy.

One way to think about gardening is that as well as growing plants and flowers sometimes you surprise yourself by growing in happiness too.

A photo of Verbena bonariensis in flower.

A tall garden flower that bees like.
Verbena bonariensis
Verbena bonariensis
This is one of my favorite flowers for my garden that has mainly cottage style plants. Verbena Bonariensis.

A place to buy Verbena Bonariensis Seeds and Plants.

Here is a UK site that sells Verbana Bonariensis seeds and plants.

Flowers that bees and insects like.

Try to plant something for butterflies and other insects.

It is good watching bees and hoverflies visit the plants in your garden and knowing you are creating a useful garden for them.

Butterflies add color and interest to a garden so planting butterfly friendly plants is a great idea.

A flower with candy stripe colors.

phlox flowers
phlox flowers

Some plants are interesting shapes.

hydrangea flower
hydrangea flower

Poppy flowers add color,texture and movement to a flower border in the summer time.

colorful delicate poppies
colorful delicate poppies

A Place to buy Pretty Poppy Seeds.

An annual that is easy to grow from seed, these will even grow in a dry area such as a gravel garden.

This is a link to a UK site that sell seeds and plants they have California poppy seeds, the variety is called California poppies - 'Jelly Bean' and these are an attractive colourful double variety that are easy to grow. These flowers are popular with bees and hoverflies and will attract them to your flower borders. There are instructions on the link of how and when to sow the seeds.

Gardeners enjoy the seasons of the year knowing each has its beauty and purpose.

As a gardener one watches the seasons of the year as they arrive and take hold and then fade into the next season.

In a garden you are aware of the passing of the seasons but in another way it is a timeless place to be.

An hour in a garden passes so quickly that you can soon loose track of time and the stress that comes with it. This slipping into a timeless place is a great stress buster. 

A Gertrude Jekyll quote about gardening.

 "A garden is a grand teacher. It teaches patience and careful watchfulness; it teaches industry and thrift; above all it teaches entire trust." (Gertrude Jekyll)

Helping garden plants thrive.

What makes a good gardener?

That is not easy to define, do we grow to love gardening and plants or are some of us just naturally drawn to the beauty of them. Some of my earliest and happiest child hood memories are of being in a garden at my first home. 

I think successes and failures when growing plants makes you learn certain principles that are useful.

You may be able to get a plant to survive when it is not in ideal conditions. 

However, if you want a plant to thrive then plant something in that spot that suits the soil, aspect and space that you have in your garden for it.

When selecting plants for a flower border remember the size the plant will grow to - its height, its spread are important. A plant that needs full sun will not grow well in the shade. The same applies to some plants wanting moist water retentive locations while others will be happy in a dry gravel bed setting.

Tulip bulbs were once so highly prized that they were sold for vast sums of money.

In 1637 a tulip bulb sold for the equivalent of ten years wages for a skilled craftsman.
tulip flower
tulip flower
Memories of a Rose in a former garden.

I once had a beautiful Albertina rose that grew along a fence of my garden.

Of course a rose like Albertina would have preferred a wall to drape herself across.

Albertina is not a repeat flowering rose, she throws open all her blooms in quick succession. The glorious display of her flowers ends all to soon, especially if the weather is unsympathetic to her. In wind or rain she, was never at her best. We share that. I just get on with it and hope for a better day tomorrow. Albertina would end up bedraggled and would lose her petals like soft peachy-pink colored confetti.

The Albertina Rose was a Mother's Day present from my children. As was her opposite which was a very well behaved and easily controlled American Pillar Rose. Sadly I had to leave them both where they were planted when I moved house. I expect my Albertina rose was cut down as too labor intensive for one rose by the new owner.

Each year in the autumn, on a day which I would select as having the correct weather. That is on a  day that was not windy or wet, I would have to prune and cut Albertina back, to keep her within our boundary. It was also important to reduce the weight as she grew against a wooden fence.  When heavy with blossom I did not want her to bring down the fence.

Even wearing thick gloves and a long sleeved garment, the thorns would hook into my sweater. I would have to free myself gently to save us both from damage as i climbed down the step ladder.  

I guess my Albertina Rose now only lives in my memories and imagination. However, she still blossoms there as a beautiful part of my past.

I now have a rose a similar color,  though it is less flamboyant you could even describe her as demure in nature. The new rose does not try to take over the garden and continues to  flower throughout the summer months. You can tell that I still think the world is a better place for the diversity of plants and for the existence of plants like the Albertina Rose. 

More pages for gardeners and those interested in gardens.

If you want to make compost but are not sure what you can make compost from. Here is a list of ten items that can go onto a compost heap and also some helpful tips on composting.

Flowers. Children can learn about lots of different subjects when they grow flowers from seeds.

Projects with seeds that help kids to learn how plants and flowers grow.

Auricula flowers - perfect velvety blooms in rich colors.

auricula flowers
auricula flowers
grown by/photo by author 2uesday

Auricula Plants where to buy the seeds.

Auricula plants can be raised from seed, off sets or stem cuttings.
A page with auricula plant seeds for sale.

Here is a page with seeds for sale to grow auricula plants from seed.

More gardening pages with photos , for those interested in own grown fruit and vegetables.

Often people assume that shop bought fruit & vegetables look better than home grown ones. Here are photos to prove that organically grown fruit and vegetables can be good looking.

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2uesday, on 04/27/2012
 
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2uesday on 08/11/2012

Good to know Katie, our English gardens got of to a strange start this spring with the weather and everything seems to be taller than usual in the flower border. I seem to be spending a lot of time tidying up and cutting back, so my plants are keeping me busy this year.

katiem2 on 08/11/2012

The recent rain has made my gardens much happier :)K

ethelsmith on 06/25/2012

Lovely wizz. I agree wholeheartedly :)

2uesday on 06/17/2012

Thank you it is nice to see you here on Wizzley. My garden seems like a box of magic tricks (the flowering plants) and some times from one year to the next I forget exactly what is there, and even the sequence that the flowers will appear in. I like it that way as it makes for happy surprises and discoveries as they come into bloom. Not much space left for new plants in this garden now. One day I will plant a new garden and have new 'friends' and old ones growing side by side.
I expect gardening in Canada can be a real challenge with the weather conditions. Here in the UK we are sometimes able to get away with half-hardy plants. Then when we get what we think of as a harsh winter (bet that makes you laugh) we lose some of the plants, but luckily that does not happen very often.

Guest on 06/17/2012

...and yes, your writing , like gardening is good for me too. In Canada gardening is a relatively short term life experience - May to late September - but your work here at Wizzley is eternal ...... and eternally wonderful. lake erie time ontario canada 11:04am

2uesday on 05/25/2012

Hello Tolovaj I do think that making/creating something is relevant to this. It is about working with something that you find holds your attention and having focused and worked on it you have an end result to show for your effort. I think this type of creativity helps to create a feeling of contentment and makes you plan for the future while living in the day.

Tolovaj on 05/14/2012

I totally understand what you are saying. Maybe it will look strange at first but reading your article I remembered feeling of accomplishment when I constructed my first furniture for my home. Making something with your will and your hands is incomparable to the feeling when you just get something.
And in the garden are so many other treats: it is alive, is is surprising, colorful... You are out, with lots of space and air... Heck I have to admit, I am a little jealous!

By the way: beautiful photos, I have never seen Auricula before.

2uesday on 05/06/2012

Meagan thank you, I too feel that cooking or serving a meal made with vegetables that you have grown yourself feels really good. Even when the weather is against the things that I am trying to grow, the resilience of the plants is rewarding to see. Fruit and vegetables that are home grown taste much nicer, the flavor and smell of them seems more intense. The flowers in the garden near my kitchen window, brighten my day.

Meagan on 05/05/2012

I agree that there are so many ways that gardening makes one happy! It's outdoors, it's physical activity, it can be alone time or quite social, it's joyful to watch things grow and it brings a special kind of satisfaction - especially vegetable gardening for me, I'm never happier than when I am putting food on the table which I have harvested from my own garden!

2uesday on 04/29/2012

True Kate and I would rather spend my time working in the garden than pay fees to go to a gym. I think gardening has taught me to plan ahead; when I first started gardening I use to forget to factor in how big the plants would grow in a few years time.




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