Learning two languages is an easy thing to do -- if you are a baby! When a baby is immersed in a loving family where two languages are spoken, the baby has little trouble absorbing the sounds of both languages and keeping them separate in her mind. This is especially true when one parent speaks to the child in one language while the other parent speaks to her in the second language.
This is how my granddaughters are being brought up, speaking English and French, and to watch the way they absorb the sounds and communicate in both languages amazes me! This isn't to say everything is perfect and they never make a mistake. They have their adorable mix-ups as any baby learning even one language will have. However, for every item in their world, they have two vocabulary words -- one English and one French.
My son Aaron was born in Canada and grew up in both Quebec and Vermont. He learned French while still young and speaks with hardly an accent. He met his wife, Marianne, at College.
When their first baby was born, Aaron and Marianne decided that Aaron would speak only English to the baby while Marianne would speak only French. That way there'd be a "Mommy language" and a "Daddy language."
Because both parents are bilingual and their daughters know it, there have been some challenges keeping to the two languages rule, but in general, it is working out quite well. As a family, they can now flip back from one language to another without a problem. The girls are very aware, however, that their grandparents are not quite so lucky! They must feel they are much smarter than the older folks!
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Thanks, Mira, I'm glad you liked it. When we are aware of how we learn a language, we can make better choices about such things as when to introduce a second language in schools or how to deal with raising a family when living in a new country or when one parent speaks a different language from the local one.
Hi sheilamarie, what a nice article. Even as I knew it's recommended you expose a child to a second language as early as possible, I didn't know that for babies language processing happens in the same part of the brain they use to learn their mother tongue. I also enjoyed the video about how children "take statistics" of various sounds in a language, and how they learn from another human being: not from audio, not from video -- how fascinating. And when you think about it, even later in life it's interaction that gives you a better facility with a language. Thank you for the article! :-)
Thanks for all the wonderful comments! Your little ones are being given such a precious gift, Brenda, Amelie, Peggy, and Jimmie. Spirituality, you are right that in Europe and in many other places in the world, learning more than one language is standard, as there are so many people speaking different languages who live so close together. Here in North America we have a harder time learning another language because there are seldom real people who speak the language we're trying to learn. Of course, this isn't always true, especially where there are lots of immigrants. Generally, though, most of us grow up speaking only English.
Having more than one language helps your mind be more flexible.
Both my daughter and daughter-in-law are speech pathologists. My daughters husband is from Thailand. Their kids are learning both languages.
I'm fluent in Dutch and English, can hold a conversation in German and - if the person I'm talking with is patient - in French. The first two are due to me being Dutch and having lived in the USA for a year when I was 12. The rest is due to the Dutch educational system. German was one of the languages I graduated in. I had French lessons in school for four years. All standard stuff for us here.
I started learning a second language when I was around 8-years-old. Even that was not early enough, but it really does help getting to grasps with the basics at a young age.
This is interesting. My children will be bilingual since we are English but live in Spain.
I only speak English but my son and his wife are teaching my two grandkids Chinese and they take lessons. You're right that the younger a child is the better they absorb a new language.
I come from a monolingual environment, but my daughter was raised abroad. Therefore she is bilingual. It is a wonderful ability.
I really enjoyed reading about your grand kids. I remember how I struggled to learn a second language in high school. Even today I only remember a few words. I think that is because I only spoke it while in class.