Scripture to Read at Weddings

The most used scripture at wedding ceremonies, or wording included on wedding invitations has traditionally been the verses from the book of First Corinthians.  The entire section which included four verses speaks of the qualities of love.  It says in part that love is patient, kind, and truthful.  It always protects, hopes and perseveres. (NIV)  These are powerful words concerning love and it's no wonder they are so popular with couples. 

To read the entire set of verses, look up 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8.

If you go back just a few verses when you get to the book of 1 Corinthians 13, there is another set of verses that speak of how useless our efforts are if we "have not love".   Those words begin at chapter 13, verses one through three.

The books of first John and second John, in the New Testament, also contain scripture pertaining to love.  In 1 John chapter 3, verse 18 we are told to put our love into actions.  And further on in chapter four there is more about loving one another. 

The Bible is full of scripture pertaining to nature and creation. Including a verse or two about the beauty of this world shouldn't be difficult to find.

One scripture that references the majesty of God is found in Acts 17 beginning with verse 24. Beginning with the statement that "God made the world and everything in it" and that "he does not live in temples built by hands". This would be a beautiful reading for a wedding set in a garden or by the sea.

Read on in this scripture and it says that God predetermined the exact time and place where a man should live. Any couple feeling that it was their "destiny" to be together could also include that part.

More examples to include:

Psalm 8: 3-9 (what is man compared to the moon and stars), Psalm 19 (the work of his hands), Isaiah 40: 26 (stars)

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Anyone who is familiar with the section of the bible called Song of Songs, also known as the Song of Solomon, knows that it speaks of love and lovers.  Although it is short, it is quite a descriptive book as two lovers pour out words of longing and desire for one another.

Most of it may not be exactly what you are looking for in your church reading, but I think it could inspire you if you plan to compose your own wedding vows.

Two sections of verses from the Song of Songs would be beautiful and appropriate for the wedding ceremony.  The first is in chapter 2, verses 10-13 which speaks of what I would consider to be reference to a new beginning.   To paraphrase: Come with me, winter has passed, the rains are over and the season of singing has come.

In chapter 8, verses 6 and 7 there is a beautiful reference to the strength and power of love.  It says in part, that love "is as strong as death" and that "it burns like a blazing fire".

You may want to consider these verses to add to a wedding invitation or program if not to be used for a reading.

The Bible has been translated, mostly for easier reading, into a large variety of versions.  The one I have referenced for writing this page is the NIV, or "New International Version".

There are many others that are written similarly, but with a large variety of wording for the same scripture. 

The King James Version is the first version of scripture and will include words such as "thine" "hath" and "thou".  If you prefer the old type wording this is the book to use.  Or you can go completely the other way and use "The Message" with paraphrased wording in a contemporary style.  This one was interpreted by Eugene H. Peterson and reads more like a book, with no verse numbers to interrupt the unique wording.

Make sure that your preferred version is used to read from for the wedding ceremony.

You should both decide on which version of the Bible to read from.  The wording will not always be alike.

At the end of the most used wedding scripture in First Corinthians there is one line which sums it up: "Love never fails".  That is what will be read from the NIV and NKJ bibles. (And probably others as well.  Not all are listed here.)

However, if your Pastor or Priest reads from the original King James Bible he will say, "Charity never faileth". In fact, that version of the Bible will not mention love in the previous verses, but uses the word "charity" in it's place. Or should I say, that the translation from the original has been changed to "love".

A much more modern version of this same line can be found in The Message bible. There, the wording of that last sentence is, "Love never dies".

Chapter thirty-one in the book of Proverbs contains a lengthy description of "The Wife of Noble Character".  In the NIV version that is the title.  In The Message it is titled, "Hymn to a Good Wife".

The entire book is dedicated to teaching and giving instruction to the young, and especially young men.  Many of the verses are short and include instruction in what is good as opposed to what is not.  It's a book of wise teachings and is linked with King Solomon who had asked God for the gift of wisdom.

Since the book is geared toward the young man, the epilogue describing this type of wife can be expected.  Without using the entire selection, a couple may want to highlight certain verses to include in a reading.

These bits of scripture will profess a lifetime commitment to each other.

The first is found in the book of Ruth and although it is Ruth speaking to her mother-in-law, Naomi, the words show the deep devotion and lifetime commitment she feels.  For the full verse, read Ruth 1: 16 & 17.

A more traditionally read passage comes from Mark 10: 6-9 which includes the words "what God has joined together, let man not separate".

The couple who will look to God for inspiration and guidance throughout their married life may want to include a favorite verse about the topics listed below.

Riches and wealth:  Psalm 49:16-20 "...riches without understanding".                        

Guidance: Psalm 25: 4&5 "...my hope is in you all day long."

Trust in the Lord: Proverbs 3: 5&6 "....lean not on your own understanding."

Strength and Hope: Isaiah 40: 28-31 "....soar on wings like eagles."

Christian living: Romans 12: 9-21

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God's word guides your life and you want to give credit to the Lord on this special day, but in doing so you won't want to go overboard with the references to Bible scripture.

The scripture you choose to use at the wedding should mean something to both of you.  In choosing one or two favorite verses, you will easily be able to get your point across.  Grabbing any old verse for the sake of adding one just prolongs the ceremony. 

Remember that some guests may not feel as strongly about their faith as you do and they won't want to feel like they are being preached to.  If you can't narrow it down to just one or two verses, consider adding printed scripture to your wedding invitations and / or program.

"I have loved you with an everlasting love." Jeremiah 31:3

"Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck; write them on the tablet of your heart".  Proverbs 3:3

"Everything is possible for him who believes." Mark 9:23

"We live by faith, not by sight." 2 Corinthians 5:7

"Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love for I have put my trust in you." Psalm 143:8