Thoughts of Suicide

by katiem2

I want to die, suicide is on the minds of many during these troubled times. Many suffer unbelievable pain and loss. Learn what to do and where to turn to stop the pain.

The complete utter and total feeling of worthlessness is becoming more and more common. While no one is worthless these feelings are real and create great pain. Pain comes from many sources. The one thing we humans are accustomed to is pain relief. With great strides in technology we enjoy many advancements in pain relief and therefore expect to be relieved of pain easily and without question. Yet for some the pain seems to go without treatment or relief of any kind as they struggle endlessly with what seems to be hopeless unending pain. It is difficult for many to understand such pain as they have never known it to such a degree. The type of pain driving a human being to consider what seems tragic is often something many cannot comprehend.

The Pain and Loneliness

Currently we consider the pain of our veterans who return home from war.

A large number of whom return with both physical and mental pain.  Many may become addicted to pain relievers as they find being comfortably numb a great solution to the worries or problems no one but they themselves truly know.  They face a loneliness of the world moving on with everyday life as they stand still trying to regain their position in society.  

Many other wise normal seeming people struggle day in and out to maintain a positive train of thought. They do so until becoming so tired and weak from the intense effort the pain becomes all consuming once again.

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I Want to Die - Why Suicide?

When the problem persist many feel they are nothing but a source of pain.

At a point in time, while the world passes quickly by, one becomes tired no longer able to fight the pain any longer and suicide becomes a option they consider. It can seem the only obvious choice at times. They become so familiar with the pain as if the suffering is exactly what and who they are, it's their identity.  

Suicide is Manageable and Preventable

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Those who they should commit suicide feel its left to them to find a remedy to this pain as if pulling a decaying tooth causing more intense discomfort as the days go by.  Removing themselves as if an object or source of pain is the one and only way it seems possible to finally bringing peace and quite. 

The Truth about Suicide

Until we openly embrace this reality of suicide and work toward a solution addressing the pain we will lose more loved ones to suicide.

You've heard the expression, Put it out of it's misery, as related to a dying animal? A reader shared with me this is how it feels! What powerful information to learn from a person who experiences such pain they feel suicide is the humane option. ! understand these are chilling words and yet these are the very words spoken to me from someone thinking of this daily.

Have you felt like this?  Are you someone who just doesn't know where to turn or if relief is possible?

Many people do so as the rest of the world seems to go on as if everything is great and wonderful.  It is not the case as the depressed and suicidal turn more inward sinking further into depression. The hurt souls hope to fade away till there is no more pain.

Truthfully we all feel depressed at times as many of us wander what it would be like to die? It is to some degree natural to wonder about death as we all will one day die. But for this reason we tend to shrug off the idea of others actually killing themselves as something that will pass. What I've come to learn is people who do commit suicide think about it often and for long periods all throughout their lives. For those who do it, this is not just some fleeting moment, it's their reality!

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Thinking of Suicide

Have you said, I can’t take it anymore I want to die?

Many people have thinking this very thought more and more often. This is so hard, to much, seems to be the norm for many of us.  When it seems we are at the end of our rope where do we turn? 

Who can help, more and more people are turning a def ear to suicide threats, threats, that’s such a poor choice of words.

Sadly it’s a big painful problem. My daughters are just thirteen and fifteenth,  three of their peers have been killed at the hands of their fathers, and in each case the father then took his own life.

Killing yourself is one thing but taking the life of an innocent child who has no choice in the matter is very sad and something we as a community to raise a red flag to.  If you feel there is a risk to a child please speak out, make it be known by as many people within your power.

Suicide in Our Country

It’s happening all over our country and in fact the globe.

We should all take heed because the great mounting shame many troubled souls face is quieting their thoughts or warnings about suicide.

It’s no longer common to hear people talk about it, they just quietly do it.The signs are there and instead of turning a def ear or blind eye to all the trouble souls around us we should step up and be more vigilant to help others who are stressed beyond their limits.

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Take Action to Stop Suicide

Suicide can be prevented if more people step in and take preventive action.

Have you been wondering if you could actually do it, kill yourself? Do you think there is no  help or way this pain you're feeling can end?  Have you talked to anyone about it?  Have you talked to someone who can be impartial and non judgmental? If you have not talked to anyone like this please call the suicide hot line @

  • 1-800-784-2433
  • 1-800-273-8255

 

Listed below are the signs of suicide according to suicide.org.  If you've been thinking you are hopeless and suicide is the only answer, please read this list and come to know how many symptoms are common to millions just like you. You are not alone, there is help, the pain can be addressed and stopped.

If you or someone you know exhibits several of the suicide warning signs listed below,

please take action!

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The Signs of the Suicidal

Know The Warning Signs of Suicide Without a Doubt

Warning Signs of Suicide:

  • Appearing depressed or sad most all the time.
    (Untreated depression is the number one cause for suicide.)
  • Talking, drawing or writing about death or suicide.
  • Withdrawing from society, family and friends.
  • Feeling hopeless, sighing and shrugging off the world.
  • Feeling helpless, shrugging of hope, stopping to attempt change.
  • Feeling strong anger, rage or resentment.
  • Feeling trapped -- like there is no way out of a situation, hopeless, withdrawn.
  • Experiencing dramatic mood changes, shifts and characteristics .
  • Abusing drugs, alcohol or food as if an attempt to self sabotage.
  • Exhibiting a change in personality, manners or character.
  • Acting impulsively, careless as if there is no reason to care.
  • Losing interest in most activities, people, animals and outdoors.
  • Experiencing a change in sleeping habits, sleeping more, all the time or not at all.
  • Experiencing a change in eating habits, eating a lot of not at all.
  • Losing interest in most activities especially those you once loved and enjoyed daily.
  • Performing poorly at work or in the home or school.
  • Giving away prized possessions, keepsakes and valuables.
  • Writing a will, or hand written letter to friends and family out of character.
  • Feeling excessive guilt or shame as if you should just go away.
  • Acting recklessly with no regard.
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Make a difference and actually perform random acts of kindness and do so as much as you can.

Note: Some people who commit suicide do not show any suicide warning signs.

If someone you know struggles with hardships, a job loss, the inability to regain employment, the loss of a home or belongings etc. help them!  

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Take note and help not by just saying, "I'm here for you." actually do something, give them hope letting them know they are not a bother yet a valuable human being you care about. 

75 percent of those who commit suicide exhibit some warning signs, so be aware of the suicide warning signs and intervene.

Do you know of someone that may be suicidal? Have you reached out, opened your mouth performed random acts of kindness proving they are worthy and cared for?

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Suicide Resources

What are the suicide resources to help intervene and stop tragedy?

The first and most important thing to do is NOT KEEP IT SECRET! While those thinking of committing suicide often don't  talk to anyone about it the signs are there.  If you notice a significant change in a person, or worse yet forget about them altogether as they have faded away, became silent, you must ask yourself why.

People tend to keep such things private and use a wait and see approach, this is never the time for that!

  • Tell friends and family or anyone who is close to this person!
  • Contact professionals who deal with this and get their advice!
  • Contact local suicide hot lines and services get advice!
  • Give the hot line information to the person in question and let them know you’re concerned!
  • Be kind performing random acts of kindness for this person and or their family.

The first step is to follow your gut tell someone, tell and tell some more! Get the helpful information of hot lines etc. in the hands of the person you're concerned about. Go as far as to program the numbers into their cell phone contact list and let them know it’s there. More now than ever people are contemplating suicide as many face hopeless situations. It’s more important than ever to be aware of the suffering going on around you and do what you can to help!

The smallest of gestures can and do make the biggest of differences!

If you've found yourself thinking, I Want to Die is Suicide the Answer?

Suicide Hot Line

Making a call to a suicide hot line can relieve a lot of pain and help you overcome thoughts of ending it. We all need to talk to someone.

Please call a suicide hot line, you can talk to someone who knows how you feel and what other options you have!

You do have other options, you just don't know until your taught!

Suicide Hot Lines;

  • 1-800-784-2433
  • 1-800-273-8255

Much Love and Healing, Katie

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Updated: 10/29/2012, katiem2
 
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katiem2 on 10/07/2014

Erik, I'm glad I finally caught up with you, I have had a busy last few months. This is such an important topic. Just this past year a friend of my oldest daughter and one of my youngest committed suicide. They were both taken back, SO shocked! First my oldest daughters friend hung himself and the youngest shot himself. Both young men. It is tragic and you made so many great points, I appreciate your very real and candid ideas. People need this stuff. Depression creates such a distraction from life itself so much so the distraction is a safety hazard, dangerous. Great to have you, Katie :)

Erik on 10/06/2014

Thanks for the compliments and such KatieM. I am looking forward to re-reading your redhead page(s) and commenting. :)

katiem2 on 10/06/2014

Erik, I like where you are going with this. Thanks for such a committed timely post. I know this will be helpful to SO many. I know it gave me a lot to hang on to and store away for what if..

katiem2 on 10/06/2014

Erik, Yes and many natural supplements help as well. I've heard great things about SamE. It does take a long time to take effect but can help a great deal.

katiem2 on 10/06/2014

Erik, Great helpful thoughts, I get it!

katiem2 on 10/06/2014

Good ideas, I like the animals suggestion, there is something so wonderful about the non judgmental love and friendship of an animal.

They are great when you are so depressed it feels like nothing is going right, everything and one is against you even those who are supposed to love you does not notice what a hard time you are having. Sometimes they even say harsh and rude things as if attacking you hoping to finish you off. Of course they aren't but it can sure feel that way. Animals are so loving and yes so many great ideals Erik thanks for the supportive ideas. Katie

katiem2 on 10/06/2014

Thanks Erik your thoughts are helpful distractions

Erik on 09/21/2014

learn some simple yet interesting
facts (like the largest lake on Earth is the Caspian Sea (it's not an
ocean but called a sea for its size). Learn another way of life (like
the Amish, some use electricity - some use cars but never own them only
for equality amongst them all). Play your favorite video game (this
forces your mind in-to the "now". You can also do this w/extreme sports
(sky-diving, bunjee jumping). Read/listen to the book 'the power of now'
by eckhardt tolle. (not a great title I know, but a fantastic book even
if you just read the 1st 2 pages!). Have sexy sex. (If not with a
partner, then with yourself. Far more people sex-up by themselves than
with a partner. The latter there is just seen in media/popularized
more. ) Speak a little bit of another language- even if it is 'dog'.
Most humans blow - don't let their weak cerebral cortex (did I spell
that correct?) set the norm for you and I. :)

Erik on 09/21/2014

and do
something/anything to get closer to it each day. (save 2 dollars a day -
make a call - ask a friend to do it w/u - ask for help - trade stuff -
etc..
9. High school is for kids (don't let something so simple & short in
time bring you down much) I look back on high school now as something
to unlearn, there were bad times galore - but some good times too.
Facebook is high school part 2 for most people. (don't live your life in
worry of your image to something as $ minded / ego driven as facebook.
(If you like using something like fb, then use it - maybe loading photos
or such cheers you up - look forward to it. Most people live in groups
that they found - it is a lot like high school - ungh - we are humans -
we are hard wired to find groups - find a group (if you would like) that
is awesome - that makes you smile - not one that makes you worry about
your hiding or .... you know what I mean.
10. Sorry folks, I forgot what I wanted to type for #10. Enjoy the
great outdoors / hike more..... uhm.... play an instrument - play
w/other people. Join a gym that has cool people. Watch and also fall
asleep to comedy movies. (you can get many at the 'goodwill' store for
50 cents/a buck). Take more photographs (not ones that everyone has
done). Think Sexier. Notice how intelligent you are compared to the
average person. Stop eating cheese/dairy. Get healthy/better diet (if
you are fat there is a good chance that you are 'allergic' to one food
(or food group) (sugar/dairy) (Yes I know I said 'sugar' as a positive
earlier- but this is for very fat people that exercise and still can't
lose). Get away from your husband or parents - whomever is making you
feel so horrible (IF that is the majority of your case). Viagra was
invented and made a lot of people 'happy' - what will the next drug be?
Help animals &/or other humans - sounds simple but you feel pretty good
with it. Get a massage. Give a massage. Buy satin sheets. See
Montreal in the Spring or Autumn. drink spring water (not tap water).
Eat dark chocolate! (reward yourself with it- you deserve it damn it!)
:) Ride a bicycle-take your cell for photos (if you don't have a bike,
you can buy one at a yard sale or ebay/craigslist). Explore your
interests/fetish/desires a lot. (If you like knitting, mo-peds, spandex
leotards, candy stores, whatever-explore these things far more
(internet/pics/other people liking/meeting them/talking more about it).
See a chiropractor at least once. le

Erik on 09/21/2014

(Think of the movie
"Dances with Wolves" when John Dunbar (Kevin Costner) gives his new
Native Indian friends the sugar to taste (alone, instead of with their
coffee) - the one Man tries it and tries to hide the smile it brings. I
am a little bit against prescript' drug$ - - but there are a few that
can help a few. I do not smoke, but from over 7 years of reading about
it and talking to folk I also recommend that you look into the cannabis
plant. Where alcohol can make you violent, beat your kids, beat your
wife, fight, bad for you, brings on RAGE in many, etc... cannabis will
mellow you. Think of the Olivia Newton-John song, "Have you never been
mellow?" (Have you never tried...). Many people have typed about taking
something with codeine in it (ask a psychiatrist) and getting that
mellow clarity of, "What was I so worried about??? - that stuff is no
big deal - - wow I was really looking at everything wrong." If you get
to this frame of mind- write it all down - or record it. Give yourself
advice.
8. Life is very hard. That is the truth. For 90 something % of the
planet, life is just really rough. If you are clothed, warm enough and
not too hungry and sitting at a computer- well we have a leg up on the
situation. (I know what that can sound like - sorry - but I think you
know what I mean.) Why did my parents have me!!!???? (accident).
Accident sounds rude - or sounds like we have something to complain
about if we found this out, but I am guessing almost half or far more of
us were not planned. Sadly I think the reason why most people have
kids is that they want that image that was planted in their mind. "I am
supposed to find that person, be married for a year or 5 and then have
kids so it's a "family" - if not we're doing something wrong - not
normal." It is ego mixed with image mixed with ego. Notice most all
of them say, "I want to have a baby". "I want to have kids". "I want
to be a Mommy". etc... Rarely do we experience someone, especially a
couple saying that "We want to have a family of four, for the rest of
our lives. I am looking forward to being so understanding when they are
38 and have to move back 'home'." (etc). Tell them to stop having
kids! It is a horrid world we live in - and only getting worse - Where
the Hell am I going with this? - If you know Science you know that we
are only here for a 'blink of an eye' (in time). Time goes super fast
- make a list of what you want to do, eat, see, try - and do
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