Katie, this is excellent and so true...from one who has been there. I spent 16 years in a marriage that I realized was wrong a week before it took place. But I had traveled to Greece to marry and, at 20, didn't realize I COULD back out...so I went through with it and did my best to make it work. For awhile, it did, but......
However, there is another page in a loveless marriage that sometimes we don't think about...those we have affected and who have affected our lives along the way. Take a look when you have a minute and I will share that side with you....
"A Glimpse, A Memory Of Love"
http://www.squidoo.com/discerning-divorce