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Men Who Wear Women's Flats

As flats continue to remain on the fashion forefront men are realizing the comfort and fashion flare of the versatile flat for themselves. Come along and enjoy a flat extravaganza.

Men have been falling in love with women's shoes for decades, actually longer, and now that flats have proven their staying power the designs and fashion flats have reached new heights. Men enjoy the versatile designs and comfort all while maintaining their style and professional flare. It's no surprise to me that men love women's flats and ballet flats, what's not to love. This metro-trend is sure to continue as more and more men have their own Ah Ha moment after slipping into a pair of ladies flats. Today it's my pleasure to share with you some of my favorite women's flats that I myself feel to be perfect for any man who enjoys wearing woman's flats.

Tory Burch Classic Reva ballet flat is simplicity at its best. The signature emblem sits on top of this black leather classic.

The Perfect Women's Flat for Men

The Tory Burch line is among the perfect flats for men.

Tory Burch offers metro style and flare any man would enjoy. The comfort of this show is heavenly. You won't want to take it off.

A male reader of mine turned me onto Tory Burch and I must say, he completely did me a huge favor. I have been obsessed with the Tory Burch line since.

Men Can Wear Women's Flats

If there ever was a unisex shoe flats are it.

You see I'm myself am a girl who really gets the needs of a man who's looking for a great women's flat. I have a big foot for a women, a size 10, I am tall, 5'10" and therefore understand the needs of a man better as I myself need a similar shoe.

Above you see the Tory Burch classic Reva ballet flat which I must say is simplicity at its best. I adore the signature emblem which sits on top of this black leather classic pleasure. It is a bit understated and yet screams I am a fashion goddess all the while projecting an air of professional perfection. I simply adore this shoe line and know you will as well.

MICHAEL MICHAEL KORS Women's Flats

The Michael Kors women's flat is another men's favorite in ladies flats.

Just look at it, who wouldn't want to be beating around the city in the fabulous shoe? Exactly, it offers everything you're looking for. It's extremely comfortable, stylish and makes the perfect statement of confidence and charm.

I adore this shoe it is so versatile you can wear it with anything. Plus the array of colors offered only intensifies the versatility. You can go casual, dressy or formal in this shoe to die for. I love the plum and oh the blue. This shoe comes in, are you ready for this, 11 color options I know right?

Madden Girl Women's Hoops-R Loafer

The perfect women's flat for men.

I can't believe this shoe is not made for men. This is a shoe I'd expect to steal from my brothers closet. Oh well, we fashion forward thinkers no when to mix it up and share.

I'm thrilled to share these Madden Girls shoes with all my men friend who love girl shoes. This is the perfect pair with an amazing flare. I don't have to tell you the amazing fashion opportunities these beauties open up for us all.

Above you see the most boring of this collection. I can't help myself I do love to tease, you have got to she the multi-colored and animal print options available in this shoe.

Nine West Women's Panto Flat

The most versatile women's flat for men.

This beautiful nine west flat for women is a daring proposition. Be warned boys this amazing shoe is like slipping into heaven. It is amazing and looks great with anything you can image. Now the best part is about to come, it comes in 25 colors and prints. The possibilities are limitless. You had better lock your closets boys because I might have to borrow a pair of these drop dead perfect flats while you're not looking.

AK Anne Klein Women's Kaya Flat

A shout out to my favorite women's flat I'd be happy to hook any of my guy pals up with.

I adore Anne Klein, the shoe that fits me so well is my go to shoe when I'm on the run but don't feel like the chase. You know what I mean right? So I just had to give Anne a shout out and out myself as being one of these flats biggest fans.

There are times when I want nothing more than to be comfortable, these flats deliver on this need. Plus, just look at them, they are classy and the perfect flare of style.

These understated shoes let me shine being the center of attention, gotta say I like that a lot.

See for yourself, I'm including two of my favorite Anne Klein flats, one above and the other to your right.

Enjoy picking and choosing your flats from this amazing line.

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Shoes For Everyone

We all have feet and we should all be allowed to love shoes.

The way our feet feels governs the way we feel entirely from head to toe.

A happy pair of feet make for a happy life, you think I'm kidding?

I'm here to tell you to slip into what ever makes you feel amazing. Because you are amazing! It's been a pleasure sharing with you.

Do check out my shoes, while you might not be into the exact color or patterns I've included here today the ones I've added will provide you with an entire array of colors, patterns and choices in women's flats.

Take it from me a girl who knows the best flats both men and women can enjoy!

I look forward to hearing from you below in the comments sections as we all let go and dish about our love of women's flats.

I <3 shoes and adore anyone who does ;) katiem2

How to Store Flats

Decorative trunks or chest are a great way to stow away your flats keeping the clean and on the ready anytime you need.

We all know all to well how those shoe boxes can stack up. A few years ago I made the leap and decided to begin recycling my shoe boxes no longer keeping each pain tucked away inside their original box. Why?

Keeping shoes in the box created a need to hide them away in a closet.

The shoes in their boxes took up so much room and became overwhelming.

When I needed a pair I had to sort through all those boxes. UGH!

I love trunks so one day I took off a pair of my flats putting them in a decorative trunk beside my front door.

The light bulb went ding ding ding! From that day forward I began neatly stacking my flats in the special trunks in my home, one in my bedroom, my living room, the dining room and entrance just beside my front door.

Now I'm on the ready and each time a look at my gorgeous trunks I smile knowing I have a treasure chest of beautiful flats.

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A Man Who Wear's Women's Shoes

Ivan's story a man who wears women's flats

Let us not forget about Ivan's story, read his amazing story below and learn what makes a man tick and draw him to women's shoes...

Updated April 23, 2014

Chat with me about what you love about women's flats, let's dish our shoe secrets here...

katiem2Oct 29, 2018

Dedriu, Good point!

DerdriuMarrinerAug 5, 2017

katiem2, It has been claimed that men's clothes tend to be better made than women's. It's interesting that that hasn't inspired publicized lines of men's flats given the fact that designers and manufacturers must be aware of the number of men who wear them today.

katiem2Nov 28, 2016

Wooooooooow Bri, 5 years, I am so very glad you did and now you are my go to pal for the dl on shoes. Thanks

katiem2Aug 16, 2016

Tom, Thanks, happy to see your page...

TomJun 23, 2016

I just posted it to the correct page. Posted to the wrong timeline before. All good now, have a look.

TomJun 21, 2016

I wear flats all the time. My wife bought my first pair for me since I wanted to try them. Flip flops don't cut it since the toes are exposed. Flats are where it at for me. I have a Facebook page called Men wearing ballet flats. Please post some pictures and thoughts.

RobMar 18, 2016

Mike: Thanks for the post. I think as long as your wife doesn't mind start wearing them in public. Don't know what area you are from but I know in our area I usually don't get too many comments good or bad. Once in a while you get the usual stares or giggles or what ever but I have that those occasion have dwindled over the years and it is a pleasure every time that I wear them out. Most people won't even notice. I wear them to the store just about every where. I am retired now but when I worked the last year or so I would wear them to work on occasion. I agree with you I would much rather see guys wearing flats than flip flops or sandals. Take care and break out those flats.

Mike smithMar 18, 2016

Rob, nice to read your post.my hat is off to you, if I wore one....lol. I do wear a cap sometimes.sounds like I would like your style. I like low cut shoes my self. I have some P Heaven flats I wear all the time at home. I just love them. My wife doesn't care for toe cleavage,but I still wear them, she knows I feel very comfortable ,and enjoy them. I've been wearing real ballet slippers about forty years ,and have always been a real shoe lover. That's the first thing I notice about someone is what kind of shoes are they are wearing. I admire you for wearing your shoes in public, wish I had that much confidence . The day is coming tho that I'm going to do just that. I own a lot of shoes. Probably more than most women. I would love to see guys wearing flats, I mean you see them wearing sandles, flip flops, and those rubber clog like shoes, come on get the flats out guys. I love the look and feel of nice leather flats, l mean come on loafers just arnt the same. Shoes for guys are usually big and clunky. I think that is one thing that all the guys who wear flats like about women's shoes is that they are light and comfortable,not big and clunky.am I right.any way I really enjoy talking about shoes, and heating other people's thoughts and opinions . Keep wearing your shoes and enjoying them.

RobMar 16, 2016

I too have loved flats since I was a kid and have been wearing them for probably close to 40 years or so. I love comfort of them. I have a high instep and haven't been a able to find a men's shoe that is really comfortable. I also like the ability to be able to match colors to what I am wearing, for example red shirt red flats, yellow shirt yellow flats. I am a colors guy and do not own any black or white flats only colors. I am also a toe cleavage guy and like lots of toe cleavage. I usually wind up having to cut the vamps down somewhat to mike liking so that I get the toe cleavage that I want. It is hard to find very low cut ballet flats. I am also a fiddler and love to fiddle with my flats constantly. Used to drive me nuts when I was kid watching the girls fiddle with their flats. Since I learned that flats were originally a men's shoe I am even more encouraged to wear them. I probably have 25 to 30 pairs. I don't have the budget to afford the higher end flats like the Tori birch, but I have found nice flats a reasonable price a Payless as well as on E-bay. I wear them probably 90% of the time, only when my wife insists that I wear my regular shoes do I wear them. I am working toward that 100% time. Katie: I am curious does your husband wear flats and if not would you support him if he did even help him to buy them. Thanks

LeeFeb 8, 2016

I have been looking at flats for a long time and I finally plucked up the courage to order a pair and I am so happy I did they are so comfy and easy to wear I think flats are perfect for men to wear and why not what ever you feel comfortable in you should just wear what you like I am so glad I did

katiem2Dec 3, 2015

You GO Peter!!!

PeterOct 25, 2015

Simply put, women's flats are a delight! A comfortable genuine leather set is unmatched and the cutest thing to admire when a girl wears a pair matched with nylons and a short skirt. My wife and I often discuss women's fashion, more specifically hosiery and footwear. Being an extremely open-minded girl, we shop together and explore women's apparel on every occasion we get...more recently sorting through and seeking out a brand new pair of flats for each other. Guys, give it a go...slip on any pair that calls out at you, whether for comfort or simple curiosity. Life's too short to worry about what or when the next smart-ass comment will be thrown in your direction. As the say goes, "nothing ventured, nothing gained" ...don't underestimate the power of girl footwear, soon to be reclaimed by the boys! :)

katiem2Oct 19, 2015

Thanks Brenn, nice to get the heads up on great uni shoes. :) Katie

BrennOct 5, 2015

I'm not sure if I mentioned this before, but the Born Julianne flat makes a great unisex shoe. It is plain and has a nice rounded toe. Extremely comfortable too!!!!

MikeSep 16, 2015

Hello again shoe lovers. I have two different comments. First to sk8ter8. I have tried the Donovan slippers. They are ok, but not what I would call over the top.My thought is they are a little generic, and more slipper like than shoe like., but on the plus side you can have them made to your liking.that is how do you like your shoes to fit, snug, a little on the loose side? Do you like toe cleavage, or do you prefer a more traditional toe box with no toe cleavage pluse they make them to fit your feet, wide, narrow what ever . My next comment is to Katiem2. I have many ideas , sketches etc for my shoe line. Mostly more for the female side, but as far as my unisex shoe thoughts...... Something not to girly, nice basic colors, probably more of a round toe, and most of all not bulky, or clunky looking like a loafer., but light weight, and with the true ballet flat style.I think most of the woman's styles tend to make your feet look small, but on the other hand, I don't want to make something that looks like a clown would wear, it ,if you know what I mean.

katiem2May 18, 2015

Mike, glad to have you here, hopefully talking with us, sharing and hearing others experiences will help you enjoy your own shoe experiences. We in no way ever want to push someone into doing something into doing a public display that would ruin their relationship with shoes. Take it at your own pace. I think the shoe line is a great idea. have you sketched any ideas yet?

Mike smithMay 11, 2015

Hello Katiem2, and fellow shoe lovers. I have enjoyed reading the many comments and stories.First of all let me say I've always been a shoe enthusiast. I could tell so many stories.I could probably write a small book. I really like the unisex shoe idea.I really love and always have since I was a young child, the ballet flat.what an awesome shoe.I have a large collection. I probably own more and better shoes than most women.wish I had the courage to wear my ballet flats in public. If I got a lot of attention and laughs it might just take all the fun out of it for me.I have wore clogs before, and women's reeboks before and been laughed at which took the enjoyment right out of the shoes I was wearing.On the other hand for the most part no one seemed to care. So I hold back on wearing my shoes in public.my wife who is not a shoe grirl doesn't say much about some of my shoes, as I do wear them around the house. She has even bought me men's ballet slippers before.I really want to start my own shoe line, be a designer, and hopefully even make shoes myself. That would be a dream come true.any thing I like I just seem to collect it. Whatever it might be.So yes I do have some favorite shoes and styles. Doesn't everyone? Well, I guess that's enough said for now.

katiem2Nov 2, 2013

Sk8ter8, Indeed!!!

katiem2Oct 28, 2013

Sk8ter8, Good point there are so many womens shoes that do in fact appear unisex... Thanks Ivan I'm feeling more normal everyday. Thanks for the great pics in my inbox, I'm going to add them soon. :)

DanielOct 25, 2013

Yes sk8ter I have looked into it not in great depth but skimmed the surface only in the last century plus about 20 years has the shoe to gender progression moved away from the flats formen and designers focused more on the feminine aspect of the style . I like going unnoticed some days but I do like to put on a bright pair or one with a strap or buckle pattern on the toes even a low cut. I do love the looks and questions I get from both men and women ... I am a restaurant manager so I stand move and lift walk all day and night so I love to put on a comfortable shoe when I'm off and flats are it.

DanielOct 25, 2013

Nice I've been wondering how to keep the leather nice thank you Rob .... Hi Katie and bri and sk8ter . I will keep you posted on news and stories!

RobertOct 25, 2013

Welcome to all the new guys. Glad you found this site and look forward to more of you and your shoes. Katie, I hope you do feel better and it's always good to read you on here. Thanks again for putting this site up too. Some of you are so darn lucky with lady friends who will gladly help you out in this regard. I'm still searching.

Product rec here. It's called "Skidmore's Leather Cream" and can be found at Skidmore's.Com. It's the regular hockey puck shaped can called "leather cream" and it's made with "natural oils and beeswax." Biker creams they sell to but this is not what I mean; look at just the regular cream. My leather flats love them and yours might too. It is much better quality cream than the behind the counter leather cleaners and conditioners often sold and pushed on you when you buy shoes. The true leather smell comes out and they are conditioned and clean. Soft and supple. Check it out : ) Rob

katiem2Oct 24, 2013

Tim, Good to have you welcome to our own little shoe lovers corner of the world where you are free to love mens, womens and:)

TimOct 24, 2013

Hi Katie. I love all these shoe stories! Regars Tim

katiem2Oct 24, 2013

Daniel, Oh THIS Is FAB and makes me dance with joy, in a gorgeous pair of stylish flats, to hear this. Thanks for joining our group I'm thrilled to hear more and more stories like yours and SkSter8 :)

katiem2Oct 24, 2013

Hi, Bri, Welcome Daniel and Sk8ter8, this is really Torybri and I's project so he can speak for both of us, we are soul mates in our love and understanding of shoes and all those who love them as we do with out discrimination. Thanks Bri, LOVE YOU!

katiem2Oct 24, 2013

SkSter8, I feel it is important to be paired with someone who is open to this as REALLY it's nothing different than a food preference IMHO!!!!

katiem2Oct 24, 2013

Sk8ter8, Sorry to miss this post but I had the stomach bug and was out of commission for a week YIKES it was nasty. But back now and great to have you join us, love what you have to share. :)

DanielOct 20, 2013

Hey everyone I was shopping aroung for new flats when I saw this and had to post. I am a 25 year old male and I be been loving flats for about a year now. I have many pairs and styles to go with anything, my girlfriend actually recommend them lol of all things it was cool. When I bought my it pair I was very nervous being in the women section but a mother of two actually helped find what i was looking floor ... I wear an 11 in women's occasionally a twelve leather seems tighter at times depending on company ... she was polite and didn't seem to mind at all that I was buying women's shoes I live the looks I get wearing them. I recommend any guy to go get some flats and be comfortable.

katiem2Oct 7, 2013

Robert, To her credit or not can't help it that is funny lol what's it matter people like that crack me up, if I were there with you I'd of been giggling like a silly school. Thanks for the laugh I needed that. :) gotta love our shoe stories. I slip into any shoe I like I guess you could say I'm bi-shoe ...

Robert Oct 2, 2013

Hi Katie. Problem solvers we are! Got a funny story. Was waiting at the gate at Denver airport for my flight back home to Chicago and had my new fitzwell "Vivian'" style loafers on. The lady across the gate seating isle could not keep her eyes off of me and them. she just stared at them for a long time; she would then look at me. When women really know they often give me a nice friendly little smile, but she seemed to be unsure whether I had women's shoes on. I just kept with my book and phone. To her credit, the Vivian almost looks unisex. :)

katiem2Oct 2, 2013

Robert, You know this is so true. I know so many people both men and LOTS of women who have wide feet, they simply don't market to everyone, real people. Go figure. I guess we must continue to be problem solvers. ;) K

RobertOct 1, 2013

Hi Katie, it's gonna work. The real leather shoes are softening. I only wish trotters made 13WW or 14 instead of a 13W only. Thanks, Robert :)

katiem2Sep 30, 2013

ivan, it works I've done it my feet are so long some times I swear my toes grow or flatten out or the sort, it drives me crazy when the bother me so but none the less this method works and is a life saver at times. :)

katiem2Sep 30, 2013

Robert, Good for hanging in there, it's hard to do but worth it. My feet are SOOOOO long and i feel your pain but it comes along.... :)K

Robert Sep 21, 2013

I didn't need to freeze them after all. The shoes are taking better shape to my foot the more I wear them :)

katiem2Sep 20, 2013

Robert, Sounds fab,

Freezing Shoes to Stretch Them Making them Wider or a Relaxed 101

About the stretching of the shoes using the freezing method, it does work BUT you have got to be certain to use a FREEZER type baggy and of good quality no bargain brands PLUS don't over fill or it will spill out of the shoe defeating the purpose, trial and error here AND once you insert the freezer bag of water for freezing place the shoes into an additional freezer bag to insure the shoe does not get scuffed or damaged itself while in the freezer, the outer surface of the baggie will protect the shoe and don't forget about it leaving it in to long.

NOTE: if leather condition the shoes before freezing so the leather will stretch without any unsightly tears or blemishes.

Shoe LOVE to ALL <3

katiem2Sep 8, 2013

Hea, Ivan I am feeling a bit on the mend as is my family, so good to hear from you and I so needed those kind words, you are such a good friend. I would totally date a man who WOMENS wears flats, ask Bri ;} especially if he wore my size, all the better. You know I grew up with three brothers, two of which were outdoors men and the third a total G Q type dressed very nice and feminine he wore dressy flats that were near women so I totally get it . I always preferred his style and taste over my other brothers, he's refined and grown more so as he's gotten older. I prefer that as I feel a LOT of women do. I've always gravitated to men like that as you and Bri know. So yes I like feminine men and have no problem with it, I like men who dress metro sexual, carry bags, purses what ever, are refined and like to shop especially for shoes, womens shoes and the like a LOT! and of if you like red wine it's a big bonus...

katiem2May 24, 2013

Ivan, Thank you dear one, I very much appreciate your kinds words, prayers and positive thoughts.

katiem2May 15, 2013

Tim, I did. Unfortunately I lost my mother just after and have been in a state of shock and mourning. I'll hang onto them for future post. Thanks

timgh44May 14, 2013

Hi Katie, did you get the pics of my flats? Tim

katiem2May 14, 2013

Robert, You are most welcome and yes I am well. Hope you can say the same.

katiem2May 13, 2013

Robert, Great plan and oh yes the tori burch reva flats are fabulous for so many reasons. Happy to hear you found them in your size. I'll keep my eye open for your size.

katiem2Apr 21, 2013

Ivanlovesflats, Great info on topsiders, I remember wearing my GQ brothers topsiders when I was a little girl, even then I knew shoes were unisex. :)

katiem2Apr 18, 2013

Tim-Kim, Sounds great look forward to it. They (Sperrys) are very popular among teens, both my daughters wear them. I was thilled when Sperry brought back topsiders in a morphed out and better way. I <3 Sperry Topsiders

timgh44Apr 18, 2013

Hi Katie, i will send you some pics of my sperry womens topsiders. They are really comfortable and only a few women have noticed them as womens shoes and they all liked them. I will send to youremail address. Thanks Tim-Kim

katiem2Apr 18, 2013

Tim,

I adore topsiders, the really nice ones are sperry shoes, gonna add my fave pair just above so you see for yourself, this pair is SO much cuter in the flesh and is very very comfy. It sparkles...love it!

and oh the variety of colors and styles, these sperry boat shoes, topsiders or what every you wanna call them are jaw dropping the images do not do them justice.

timApr 17, 2013

i love womens loafers and flats, I have quite a collection as I live near Amsterdam and there are plenty of shoes in my size 44 or US 12. I have womens topsiders also, anybody else like those?

katiem2Mar 29, 2013

Thanks Robert and Ivan, I'm so loving these savvy shoe tips and tricks. :)

I <3 shoes

katiem2Mar 28, 2013

Good Tips Guys, Being a tall woman I appreciate these tips as well. :)K

katiem2Feb 6, 2013

Thanks again Carl for the great review of fabulous flats and your shopping experience. :)K

katiem2Jan 18, 2013

MonisMas, Welcome to the shoe lovers club :)

MonisMasJan 18, 2013

You got some awesome shoes here, and shoes are my weakness - so you got me :-)

BrennKDec 23, 2012

My ballet flats collection can be viewed at: http://www.flickr.com/photos/47135785@N04/

katiem2Dec 17, 2012

Thanks, Ivancito I will get with you after the holidays. Taking the holiday off to travel with the family. Happy Hollidays and thanks for the great offer. :)K

IvancitoDec 16, 2012

Hi Katie,
I love this article, If you need pics of me wearing flats for your next article just let me know , it would be my pleasure to cooperate in your next article: ivallejobaca@yahoo.com Regards. Ivan

katiem2Dec 10, 2012

Sure I'll email you. :)K

timghDec 10, 2012

Hi Katie , how interesting. I am going to enjoy your stories and I love the idea that you have such a interest. timgh44@gmail.com for pic . sending, I want to send some pics of my dark blue flats with jeans. Regards Tim

katiem2Dec 10, 2012

Steve and timgh, I have been insanely busy these days with other projects and deadlines. BUT I have a written account of a man wearing his woman flats in public over the past few weeks. It's something I'm sure you can relate to. It's amazing how people notice your feet and what others wear in terms of shoes. I plan to build another page with the real life story of his adventures and more importantly his transformation in terms of allowing himself to be himself in public. I'm so thrilled and happy for him, his written account and story is very touching and inspiring. Stay tuned to read it. I will get pictures from you... I do want to follow trough on this. Thanks guys for staying in touch here. :)K

SteveDec 9, 2012

slitler@gmail.com

I am just outside London

timghDec 9, 2012

Hi Steve, i can send some pics of my flats and heels if you send me your email direct, I live in Holland, where are you located. I like talking to guys with the same interests.

SteveDec 9, 2012

I also like to paint my toes too. I've been painting my toes longer than I have been wearing the shoes, that was the starting point for me.

SteveDec 9, 2012

Sounds sexy!! X

timghDec 9, 2012

i also love womens boots, I am wearing a pair of italian, brown knee high right now with my jeans tucked in. timgh44@gmail.com

SteveDec 9, 2012

It's nice to see I am not alone in my fascination with womens shoes x

timghDec 9, 2012

good for you Steve, I have lots of italian flats and I wear them walking thru Amsterdam and hardly anybody notices, Tim

SteveDec 8, 2012

I have loved womens shoes for years, I recently bought my first pair of flats and wear them constantly! Sure I get a few strange looks but I am starting not to care!

katiem2Nov 20, 2012

Great Tim, I'll get in touch with you after the holidays. Look forward to chatting with you. :)

timNov 20, 2012

Hi Katie, sorry i do not have flicker but my e mail is timgh44@gmail.com, it would be great to hear from you, i am sure we would have lots to talk about. I am an originally from Mich. and living in Holland for 30 years. Regards Tim

katiem2Nov 18, 2012

Hmmmm, do you have a flickr link?

TimNov 18, 2012

hi again Katiem, nice to have someone to discuss my fetish with, how can I send pics for you?

katiem2Nov 17, 2012

Thanks Tim, Great hearing from you, Italian flats are always an outstanding addition to any shoe collection.

timNov 17, 2012

Hi, I have a collection of mostly Italian flats, they are so comfortable. I live in Holland and because the Dutch girls are so tall there are plenty of flats and heels available in my size 44, Luv your site and luv wearing all styles of womens shoes, Tim

katiem2Nov 7, 2012

Pinkpanther222, I think you're right, in fact I feel it has already taken hold. I know in the city where I live a diverse group of men enjoy wearing all of the above fashion choices you've mentioned. Thanks for validating what I've suspected for a while. Good to hear from you! :)K

Pinkpanther222Nov 7, 2012

I'm currently in Edmonton on business...this evening I went to the West Edmonton Mall...I wore my Maria Sharapova by Cole Haan ballet flats with my skinny jeans...these ballet flats are unbelievably comfortable..like walking on air...I feel that ballet flats will become more mainstream for men...like capris, handbags/purses (satchels), skinny jeans, manicures/pedicures, etc.

katiem2Nov 6, 2012

Pinkpanther, I agree, and good for you, you go now! Did you know men first wore the shoes like those today designed for women???? Yes, it is true the royals, rulers and such all wore the shoes like those we women wear today. We stole this fashion statement and it is any mans right to take back what was once solely theirs. My vote is we share! Love hearing from you, thanks for sharing! :)

Pinkpanther222Nov 6, 2012

I wear ballet flats on a regular basis...grocery shopping, library, casual days at work, etc...recently my wife and I travelled from Canada to San Diego and San Francisco...I wore my black Puma Rhythm ballet flats most of the trip...I received some second looks, fingering pointing and OMG's, but, for the most part most people don't care...they are very comfortable, light on your feet,flexible and easy to take off and put back on when going through the airport security...bottom line is we men need to be confident when we wear our glorious ballet flats. I currently have about 25 pairs ob ballet flats in al colors...great with my skinny jeans, shorts, leggings and capris.

katiem2Nov 4, 2012

I think you're right... :)

MiraNov 4, 2012

This calls for a Zazzle mug :-)

katiem2Nov 4, 2012

Skplus, I feel those of us who love ballet flats should ignore any judgement. There will always be those types in the midst who thrive on complaints and back biting. Thankfully we can walk faster in our ballet flats getting away from such toxic instances. Thanks for sharing. I'd love to see your shoe collection. I too LOVE Steve Madden :)K

skplusNov 4, 2012

I've had a thing for ballet flats since I was about 10 years old - I dont know what is was but I enjoyed it. Now I love the comfort and have purchased about 500 pairs - different colors and slightly different styles but I have always enjoyed the low cleavage shoes - I find them very sexy and comfy. It is my own personal hobby but it would be so handy to be an accepted thing for men. My fave shoe is steve madden heaven. I have several colors and want to have more.

Skplus

IvancitoNov 4, 2012

Hi Katiem2,
I loved your article. I am small frame guy and I have the opposed problem than you, my feet is too small, men US 6.5 that I had not too many options to buy shoes after moving some months ago to Canada. So one of my girl friends lent me try her flats from GAP, they fit me perfectly and they were very comfortable. I started wearing black flats with jeans, capris and khakis and i must admit at first I was afraid to wear them in public, but for my surprise nobody cares and I received more positive comments than negatives, and many women told me that I look great on them, even some of them had swapped flats with me lol. In fact one lady that own a store and usually wear same style of flats like me told me that flats for her are unisex and that are most like slippers and I totally agree.I hope more guys have the courage to wear them.

MiraNov 3, 2012

Yes, shoes should be fun, and these ballerina shoes are anything but flat :-)

katiem2Nov 2, 2012

Brenn, It is my pleasure. You make some very good points. Much Appreciated! Our feet determine how we feel all over we should therefore pay special attention to our feet making certain they are comfortable. Great to have you here :) katiem2

BrennNov 1, 2012

Flats are such a practical and comfortable shoe. What we now call a "ballerina flat" was one a unisex shoe in the middle ages. Korean men have a traditional shoe that is very similar to women's flats in the US. See this link:
http://www.china-cart.com/d.asp?a=Traditional+Hanbok+Korea+Shoes+for+Men&d=15301

I started wearing women's flats because I have a high instep and they are the only shoe that does not rub the top of my foot. Now I wear them all the time. Thanks for a great post and promoting a practical and comfortable shoe style for men.

katiem2Oct 31, 2012

Torybri, Me too, I'm glad to find a great flat like Tory Burch in my size and I can't wait for a shoe to go on sale and run the risk of it being out of stock in my size, a ladies 10, and I thought I had big feet. I now think a lot of women are fibbing about their shoe size, why I don't know! When you wear a woman's 10 you must constantly be on the look at for great shoes in your size, when you find them buy them. NO regrets! :)

katiem2Oct 30, 2012

Toribri, Thanks so much, shoe love your way :) I'm so going to add nordstroms on this page letting folks no where to get them in sizes up to 12.

katiem2Oct 30, 2012

Torybri, Oh that is good news. I wear a ten and they can be near impossible to find at times, makes me crazy. But there is no way this girl is ever cramming her foot into a shoe that's to small, the poor shoe, I'd never commit a fashion crime like that. Thanks for the hook up on bigger sized women's flats. :)

katiem2Oct 30, 2012

QuantumLouie, That's a cool little secret. I grew up with three brothers so it's no big deal for me to wear all sorts of things made for men. I do love women's flats as I am well over the average height for a woman and flats make me feel good. :)

QuantumLouieOct 30, 2012

Some flats look comfortable. I would try them on as long as they don't have flowers or designs that are too girly. If you look at some women's flats you can notice that they look a lot like Chinese "kung fu" shoes. I do wear some women's shirts that have a "goth" like look to them. For example, I have a long sleeve turtle neck shirt with a very long neck area. Many people say it looks retro. I get a kick out knowing the truth.

katiem2Oct 30, 2012

Torybri, So true, A big fat AMEN! It maybe should be, "how many pairs of ballet flats does one human need?" You do know the amazing versatile ballet flat can go, or fit any where. I have them everywhere, in this bag, that bag, drawer, glove box, the places you can stash a great pair of spare flats is limitless. Yes, lets obsess together. Sending shoe love your way :)K

katiem2Oct 29, 2012

Pam, Yes I am very serious and so are the men who enjoy wearing women's shoes. Thanks for stopping by to read. :)

dustytoesOct 29, 2012

Are you serious?
I sometimes buy men's clothing because it's comfy and cheaper than women's stuff. Flannel shirts and pjs mostly - but I can not picture any guy wearing the shoes you have on this page... really???

katiem2Oct 28, 2012

Scott, Thanks for sharing your real life experience sharing you wife's flats.

ScottOct 27, 2012

I slip on my wifes flats all the time to run errands. They are really comfortable and look great. we wear the same size. She yells at me to give her shoes back, she hides them from me. She says she's afraid I'll stretch them out. I really like the flats you've highlighted today, I think I'll buy the wife a pair or two of these for Christmas "Wink Wink" Great insights into the many things men love that are orginally meant for women.

katiem2Oct 26, 2012

Ragtimelil, I too wear men's shoes, makes sense to me men would appreciate the best of our shoes. :)

RagtimelilOct 26, 2012

Sounds odd, but then I've been wearing men's shoes and boots for years. My feet USED to be a 10. Now I've spread out to an 11.

Article

Men Who Wear Women's Flats

As flats continue to remain on the fashion forefront men are realizing the comfort and fashion flare of the versatile flat for themselves. Come along and enjoy a flat extravaganza.

Tory Burch Classic Reva ballet flat is simplicity at its best. The signature emblem sits on top of this black leather classic.

The Perfect Women's Flat for Men

The Tory Burch line is among the perfect flats for men.

Tory Burch offers metro style and flare any man would enjoy. The comfort of this show is heavenly. You won't want to take it off.

A male reader of mine turned me onto Tory Burch and I must say, he completely did me a huge favor. I have been obsessed with the Tory Burch line since.

Men Can Wear Women's Flats

If there ever was a unisex shoe flats are it.

MICHAEL MICHAEL KORS Women's Flats

The Michael Kors women's flat is another men's favorite in ladies flats.

Madden Girl Women's Hoops-R Loafer

The perfect women's flat for men.

I can't believe this shoe is not made for men. This is a shoe I'd expect to steal from my brothers closet. Oh well, we fashion forward thinkers no when to mix it up and share.

Above you see the most boring of this collection. I can't help myself I do love to tease, you have got to she the multi-colored and animal print options available in this shoe.

Nine West Women's Panto Flat

The most versatile women's flat for men.

AK Anne Klein Women's Kaya Flat

A shout out to my favorite women's flat I'd be happy to hook any of my guy pals up with.

There are times when I want nothing more than to be comfortable, these flats deliver on this need. Plus, just look at them, they are classy and the perfect flare of style.

These understated shoes let me shine being the center of attention, gotta say I like that a lot.

See for yourself, I'm including two of my favorite Anne Klein flats, one above and the other to your right.

Enjoy picking and choosing your flats from this amazing line.

These Anne Klein flats are sure to push all the right buttons. These flats feature a leather, synthetic, or fabric upper in a variety of prints and textures with tie detail and ...

The hoodie the perfect utilitarian piece of clothing. Leave your hat and scarf at home Stay warm and comfy in your Pullover Hooded Sweatshirt. This hoodie is constructed with a ...

Shoes For Everyone

We all have feet and we should all be allowed to love shoes.

The way our feet feels governs the way we feel entirely from head to toe.

A happy pair of feet make for a happy life, you think I'm kidding?

I'm here to tell you to slip into what ever makes you feel amazing. Because you are amazing! It's been a pleasure sharing with you.

Take it from me a girl who knows the best flats both men and women can enjoy!

I look forward to hearing from you below in the comments sections as we all let go and dish about our love of women's flats.

I <3 shoes and adore anyone who does ;) katiem2

How to Store Flats

Decorative trunks or chest are a great way to stow away your flats keeping the clean and on the ready anytime you need.

Keeping shoes in the box created a need to hide them away in a closet.

The shoes in their boxes took up so much room and became overwhelming.

When I needed a pair I had to sort through all those boxes. UGH!

I love trunks so one day I took off a pair of my flats putting them in a decorative trunk beside my front door.

Now I'm on the ready and each time a look at my gorgeous trunks I smile knowing I have a treasure chest of beautiful flats.

Sperry Shoes

A Man Who Wear's Women's Shoes

Ivan's story a man who wears women's flats

Let us not forget about Ivan's story, read his amazing story below and learn what makes a man tick and draw him to women's shoes...

Updated April 23, 2014

Chat with me about what you love about women's flats, let's dish our shoe secrets here...

katiem2Oct 29, 2018

Dedriu, Good point!

DerdriuMarrinerAug 5, 2017

katiem2Nov 28, 2016

Wooooooooow Bri, 5 years, I am so very glad you did and now you are my go to pal for the dl on shoes. Thanks

katiem2Aug 16, 2016

Tom, Thanks, happy to see your page...

TomJun 23, 2016

I just posted it to the correct page. Posted to the wrong timeline before. All good now, have a look.

TomJun 21, 2016

RobMar 18, 2016

Mike smithMar 18, 2016

RobMar 16, 2016

LeeFeb 8, 2016

katiem2Dec 3, 2015

You GO Peter!!!

PeterOct 25, 2015

katiem2Oct 19, 2015

Thanks Brenn, nice to get the heads up on great uni shoes. :) Katie

BrennOct 5, 2015

I'm not sure if I mentioned this before, but the Born Julianne flat makes a great unisex shoe. It is plain and has a nice rounded toe. Extremely comfortable too!!!!

MikeSep 16, 2015

katiem2May 18, 2015

Mike smithMay 11, 2015

katiem2Nov 2, 2013

Sk8ter8, Indeed!!!

katiem2Oct 28, 2013

Sk8ter8, Good point there are so many womens shoes that do in fact appear unisex... Thanks Ivan I'm feeling more normal everyday. Thanks for the great pics in my inbox, I'm going to add them soon. :)

DanielOct 25, 2013

Nice I've been wondering how to keep the leather nice thank you Rob .... Hi Katie and bri and sk8ter . I will keep you posted on news and stories!

RobertOct 25, 2013

katiem2Oct 24, 2013

Tim, Good to have you welcome to our own little shoe lovers corner of the world where you are free to love mens, womens and:)

TimOct 24, 2013

Hi Katie. I love all these shoe stories! Regars Tim

katiem2Oct 24, 2013

SkSter8, I feel it is important to be paired with someone who is open to this as REALLY it's nothing different than a food preference IMHO!!!!

katiem2Oct 24, 2013

Sk8ter8, Sorry to miss this post but I had the stomach bug and was out of commission for a week YIKES it was nasty. But back now and great to have you join us, love what you have to share. :)

DanielOct 20, 2013

katiem2Oct 7, 2013

Robert Oct 2, 2013

katiem2Oct 2, 2013

RobertOct 1, 2013

Hi Katie, it's gonna work. The real leather shoes are softening. I only wish trotters made 13WW or 14 instead of a 13W only. Thanks, Robert :)

katiem2Sep 30, 2013

Robert, Good for hanging in there, it's hard to do but worth it. My feet are SOOOOO long and i feel your pain but it comes along.... :)K

Robert Sep 21, 2013

I didn't need to freeze them after all. The shoes are taking better shape to my foot the more I wear them :)

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katiem2May 24, 2013

Ivan, Thank you dear one, I very much appreciate your kinds words, prayers and positive thoughts.

katiem2May 15, 2013

Tim, I did. Unfortunately I lost my mother just after and have been in a state of shock and mourning. I'll hang onto them for future post. Thanks

timgh44May 14, 2013

Hi Katie, did you get the pics of my flats? Tim

katiem2May 14, 2013

Robert, You are most welcome and yes I am well. Hope you can say the same.

katiem2May 13, 2013

Robert, Great plan and oh yes the tori burch reva flats are fabulous for so many reasons. Happy to hear you found them in your size. I'll keep my eye open for your size.

katiem2Apr 21, 2013

Ivanlovesflats, Great info on topsiders, I remember wearing my GQ brothers topsiders when I was a little girl, even then I knew shoes were unisex. :)

katiem2Apr 18, 2013

timgh44Apr 18, 2013

katiem2Apr 18, 2013

timApr 17, 2013

i love womens loafers and flats, I have quite a collection as I live near Amsterdam and there are plenty of shoes in my size 44 or US 12. I have womens topsiders also, anybody else like those?

katiem2Mar 29, 2013

Thanks Robert and Ivan, I'm so loving these savvy shoe tips and tricks. :)

I <3 shoes

katiem2Mar 28, 2013

Good Tips Guys, Being a tall woman I appreciate these tips as well. :)K

katiem2Feb 6, 2013

Thanks again Carl for the great review of fabulous flats and your shopping experience. :)K

katiem2Jan 18, 2013

MonisMas, Welcome to the shoe lovers club :)

MonisMasJan 18, 2013

You got some awesome shoes here, and shoes are my weakness - so you got me :-)

BrennKDec 23, 2012

My ballet flats collection can be viewed at: http://www.flickr.com/photos/47135785@N04/

katiem2Dec 17, 2012

Thanks, Ivancito I will get with you after the holidays. Taking the holiday off to travel with the family. Happy Hollidays and thanks for the great offer. :)K

IvancitoDec 16, 2012

katiem2Dec 10, 2012

Sure I'll email you. :)K

timghDec 10, 2012

katiem2Dec 10, 2012

SteveDec 9, 2012

slitler@gmail.com

I am just outside London

timghDec 9, 2012

Hi Steve, i can send some pics of my flats and heels if you send me your email direct, I live in Holland, where are you located. I like talking to guys with the same interests.

SteveDec 9, 2012

I also like to paint my toes too. I've been painting my toes longer than I have been wearing the shoes, that was the starting point for me.

SteveDec 9, 2012

Sounds sexy!! X

timghDec 9, 2012

i also love womens boots, I am wearing a pair of italian, brown knee high right now with my jeans tucked in. timgh44@gmail.com

SteveDec 9, 2012

It's nice to see I am not alone in my fascination with womens shoes x

timghDec 9, 2012

good for you Steve, I have lots of italian flats and I wear them walking thru Amsterdam and hardly anybody notices, Tim

SteveDec 8, 2012

I have loved womens shoes for years, I recently bought my first pair of flats and wear them constantly! Sure I get a few strange looks but I am starting not to care!

katiem2Nov 20, 2012

Great Tim, I'll get in touch with you after the holidays. Look forward to chatting with you. :)

timNov 20, 2012

katiem2Nov 18, 2012

Hmmmm, do you have a flickr link?

TimNov 18, 2012

hi again Katiem, nice to have someone to discuss my fetish with, how can I send pics for you?

katiem2Nov 17, 2012

Thanks Tim, Great hearing from you, Italian flats are always an outstanding addition to any shoe collection.

timNov 17, 2012

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katiem2Nov 4, 2012

I think you're right... :)

MiraNov 4, 2012

This calls for a Zazzle mug :-)

katiem2Nov 4, 2012

skplusNov 4, 2012

IvancitoNov 4, 2012

MiraNov 3, 2012

Yes, shoes should be fun, and these ballerina shoes are anything but flat :-)

katiem2Nov 2, 2012

BrennNov 1, 2012

katiem2Oct 31, 2012

katiem2Oct 30, 2012

Toribri, Thanks so much, shoe love your way :) I'm so going to add nordstroms on this page letting folks no where to get them in sizes up to 12.

katiem2Oct 30, 2012

QuantumLouieOct 30, 2012

katiem2Oct 30, 2012

katiem2Oct 29, 2012

Pam, Yes I am very serious and so are the men who enjoy wearing women's shoes. Thanks for stopping by to read. :)

dustytoesOct 29, 2012

katiem2Oct 28, 2012

Scott, Thanks for sharing your real life experience sharing you wife's flats.

ScottOct 27, 2012

katiem2Oct 26, 2012

Ragtimelil, I too wear men's shoes, makes sense to me men would appreciate the best of our shoes. :)

RagtimelilOct 26, 2012

Sounds odd, but then I've been wearing men's shoes and boots for years. My feet USED to be a 10. Now I've spread out to an 11.