Today's topic is an open and honest look into why many men love women's shoes. This love does not involve the love of said shoe on a woman's foot, but their own, yes that's right men wearing shoes for ladies! Really how different is it from we girls slipping into our boy friends clothes?
This is a no judgment zone from which we take a practical and honest look into why perfectly normal and straight men love wearing women's shoes.
Men wearing high heels have yet to become the next big thing, unless you're a rock star, cross dresser or female impersonator and yet many an average run of the mill man loves wearing ladies heels, pumps and shoes of all types.
Chat about men who love women's shoes
I didn't try yet, but who said you can't wear rockstar wedges as your everyday style or for particular occasions? I think that if the rest of the look matches it makes for an edgy visual style that also might communicate you care about details and fitness.
I am a man that loves women's shoes but I do not wear them or even want to wear them. However, I am constantly collecting women's shoes. It's a fetish I have enjoyed since I was very young so when I grew old enough, I started buying women's shoes that I found attractive. I do not discuss this topic much because I know most people are judgemental but when I am intimately involved with a woman, I open up about it because I am an honest fellow. I have discovered that the honesty doesn't hinder my dating life but there's a time to open up about this and there are times my gut feeling tells me to stay private about it. Eventually I realize why my gut was telling me not to discuss this and I am always glad I took heed by not bringing it up.
I like all womens shoes High Heels, Wedges, Flats, Sneakers, & Sandals. For me it's not really a fetish I just like to wear something different around the house. It's just feels so natural to wear sometimes. I'm glad I discovered this site.
I have had a fascination with women's high heels, mainly the closed toe pump. I do collect them in women sizes for glamour/fetish photography and art work. I don't wear them or have the desire to but to see them on a woman is what appeals to me. Women tell me that they like to be photographed while wearing them as they state they feel sexy in them.
All the comments about sexuality and fetishes. Speaking for myself, it has nothing to do with that. It's about freedom. Freedom to wear what you want in spite of society's taboo on something. For me, it never was high heels, but white sandals...strappy ones in particular. So what? Who am I hurting and why does that offend you? Consciously, I just really like them just like any of my other hobbies. I have four dirt bikes and love all things dirt bike related. I build a fly several RC aircraft. I consider my time spent researching planes, on the simulator, etc, no different from my time on the internet buying sandals for my collection...just another hobby. Perhaps subconsciously, the inner rebel does like the fact that it pisses the prudish woman or man next to me at the gas pump when I'm sporting my flat white strappy sandals. But really, I just want you do not have a reaction that upsets you and just leave me alone.
Ive struggled with my Love of womens heeled footwear for years, I love Boots and Pumps and have a collection which many women would be envious of. Ive learned to accept this is a part of me and its nice to know Im not alone. I have jeans, western boots which I do wear out but havent worn heels out. So nice to look at and wear the feeling is like none other, Im wearing Stuart Weitzman Goliath right now. I dont know if its a hobby, a fetish combo of both. I have The Hyper in stiletto also. Is Ebay a blessing or a curse? lol Ive never really discussed this anywhere or with anyone before. I think Im at a point in life I where things can be different. Being in a smaller rural area I dont think many would be very accepting of my tastes. Guess, some Steve Madden, BCBG, 4 pair Stuart W, even a few pairs of Gianmarco Lorenzi, all so nice.I just love that high arch feeling . Is it wrong to be jealous seeing a pretty gal dressed to the nines with high heels on? I see her and what she wears. It would be wonderful to find a woman who'd accept that in a guy.
Hi All, I too love to wear women's shoes I only like to wear jellie shoes I have been wearing them for years in the summer that's all I wear my feet are tanned and the shape of the sandals are in the tan. I have many pairs but last year I decided to raise money for breast cancer reserch by wearing the heeled jellie sandals for one week so I bought a pair of woven jellie sandals from American apparel in the clear plastic. Well I wore them out every where I went and I enjoyed every minute of it they are so nice to wear I wear them around the house now and sometimes wear them when I go out but my wife will not go out with me when I wear them funny but when I wore them for charity she would go out with me. But I have bought more pairs since I wore them to raise money. I am a straight guy but just love to wear these shoes they are so cumfi and I personally don't think that they look out of place on a man when worn with jeans.
Steve
Hi: I love to wear women's shoes of all types. In fact, I wear women's walking shoes with my shorts and shirts in the summer. In fact, the shorts that I wear are also women's. I prefer them to men's because there are more styles and types than men's shorts. I also wear all women's shoes in the winter, being booties, actual boots, dress oxfords, and wedge heels. Wedge heels are my favorite because they are so comfortable for all day wear and with levi's, they really look good. Levi's are all women's, as I do not own any men's, as they are not as comfortable or good looking. I do not understand why it is not acceptable for men to wear women's clothing, especially when women wear men's clothes all the time. I can tell you that men can wear anything they want, if they do it with care and act sensibly. I have only had one women ask about my wedge heeled shoes and she made the comment that I was wearing women's shoes, and my response was "so are you". She smiled and walked away. By this time you are probably thinking that I am gay, but that is the farthest thing from the truth. I am in a very committed relationship with the most fantastic woman on the planet. I do wear high heels, but only around the house. However, on long road trips I will drive with them on. Sometimes I will wear a skirt with them while driving, as it is really comfortable. The bravest thing that I do is occasionally I will wear heels and a skirt to a fast food drive through to get an order. That is such a "turn on". I do it for the thrill and also I am waiting to see if anyone ever notices. So far no one has, or at least they have not appeared to have or said anything. By this time, it is clear that I believe that men should be able to "wear what they want, when they want", without fear of ridicule or worse.
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I'm married with two children and I like to wear girl's shoes and clothing, very nice,