"Put Your Oxygen Mask on First"

by Rusty_Coyote

You have to take care of yourself first before you can care for others.

While getting ready to fly home after vacation, the flight attendant was going through the usual safety briefing.
"Put your Oxygen mask on first before you help your child", the attendant stated. At first I thought "Well that's a pretty selfish thing to do". But after thinking about it, it made sense, if you're rendered unconscious, then you're no good to anyone.

This same statement can be applied to our everyday lives. You need to take care of yourself first before you can start helping others.

Taking Care of Yourself

I'm not talking about physically - a new hairdo, manicure and new outfit; I'm talking about mentally. You need to see and feel about yourself in a positive way. If you hate yourself, feel negative about yourself, or have low self-esteem, you won't be able to help, love or lift others.

How we feel about ourselves greatly affects how we see others and the world around us. If you've got low self-esteem, you might then have a tendency to have jealous feelings and start putting down those you feel that are more successful than you. That's just human nature.  Strong, positive people tend to uplift and encourage those around them rather than tear them down.

So before you go helping others, looking for love, taking care of your family, or simply trying to enjoy your surroundings, you really need to take care of yourself first. Weed out the negativity, the bad influences and bad thoughts.

There are various free resources to be found on the Internet to help live a positive life. Just do a search on "positive living" and choose which "method" suits you; whether it's an agnostic or faith-based; Professionally run or casual groups. There are also a great list of books on Amazon listed below.

I encourage you to live a positive life and if it's all "just too much", I encourage you to seek counseling. There's nothing wrong with getting a little guidance and understanding. I know it's hard to get past the "stigma" of counselling, but it does offer an impersonal view on things. It's easier taking advice from a stranger than your own family.

You might think "easy for you to say", well did you know I'm a deaf and legally blind mother of two teenagers, I have battled my barriers and waded through negative discrimination and stereotypes. I have picked myself again and again after different failures and brushed myself off and tried again, or decided on a different "route" to my goals. A good definition of failure is deciding to quit.

So, put your oxygen mask on and take care of yourself first.

Amazon List

List of Books for Positive Living
The Power of Positive Living

Filled with letters, anecdotes, and examples drawn from the author's extensive counseling experience with men and women of all ages and walks of life, this powerful guide offers...

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Rewire Your Brain for Positive Living: Positive Affirmation Journal with Prompts

A positive mindset alone may not be enough to change your life.Traditional affirmations work on your conscious mind which can often be in direct conflict with what your subconsc...

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Cory Stories: A Kid's Book about Living with ADHD

In short statements and vignettes, Cory describes what it's like to have ADHD: how it affects his relationships with friends and family, his school performance, and his overall ...

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Positive Living Day by Day: 365 Daily Devotionals

Minister and author Norman Vincent Peale's daily devotional offers nuggets of wisdom that can change one's life. Collected from over fifty years of his writings, Norman Vincent ...

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The Power of Positive Thinking

An international bestseller with over five million copies in print, The Power of Positive Thinking has helped men and women around the world to achieve fulfillment in their live...

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You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life

YOU ARE A BADASS IS THE SELF-HELP BOOK FOR PEOPLE WHO DESPERATELY WANT TO IMPROVE THEIR LIVES BUT DON'T WANT TO GET BUSTED DOING IT. In this refreshingly entertaining how-to gui...

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Updated: 03/18/2015, Rusty_Coyote
 
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