Love...in friendship or in romance love ends up being a beguiling force that drives us, makes us crazy, leads us to create art, leaves us confused and even, sometimes, takes us to transcendent, wonderful places!
There are constant debates about what makes a person "ready" for love...one school of thought is that you can't have a loving relationship with anyone until you are a complete person yourself who doesn’t need anyone...another school of thought is that the only people who ARE in relationships are those that are somewhat co-dependent, "half of a greater whole" as it were.
In this article I'll explore some ideas that I picked up while doing research and in talks with a therapist, suggestions of things to look out for in yourself or someone else when you're beginning a new relationship in hopes that the information will help you make good decisions about how you want things to proceed!
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