There is a branch of philosophy that deals with logic, and since mathematics has evolved from this branch of philosophy logic is also taught in mathematics. The focus of logic, the desired result, is to determine when an argument is valid, and when it is invalid. Once some basic concepts are mastered one can determine if an argument makes sense when presented by another person, and when an argument might be convincing to another person.
To set the rules for arguing successfully it should be noted at the outset that emotion is not only unnecessary, but may hinder a well presented argument. Having a listener receptive is a first step, so avoid an unwanted reaction by remaining calm.
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In math it is easier to find a counter-example and prove something false, for proving something is true cannot be done with example.
blackspanielgallery, Do you prefer an argument from a negative or a positive statement? A couple of days ago, I re-saw the film The Double with Richard Gere and Topher Grace. It quite dramatically shows a conclusion on the identity of the elusive Cassius as If X is not Cassius then he will not be in all of the crime scene photos because Cassius always returns to the scene of the crime.
Lack of agreement to the hypotheses is why so many arguments get so cantankerous. People think they are making a point by screaming. Actually, many assume the conclusion to be a hypothesis. Closed minds are the real problem.
G.K.Chesterton would debate with anyone except the occultist Alistair Crowley, for Chesterton required that everyone with whom he debated should share his fundamental premise that the good is fundamental, but Crowley was committed to evil and did not share Chesterton's premise.