Only this week my eldest son came to help me on the allotment, and I was glad of his help. I had been busy tending the vegetable plots and had taken my eye off the ball with the fruit section, so it had become a bit weedy. The problem is worsened by the ground elder, an invasive weed that comes in, I believe, from under the nearby road, so I cannot get at its roots without excavating the council's road, and they would have words with me if I did! As usual when Andrew, aged thirty four, turns up, he proceeds with gusto. Taking a spade he began to chop into weedy growth and sling it into the compost heap. I was grateful, but I also learned a lesson: he is faster now than I am. Thirty one years difference in age is showing. I left him to the vigorous tasks while I did the delicate ones, weeding the carrot seedlings, which require a sensitive and delicate hand, and tending the greenhouse. I was pleased with the result of our joint efforts: the effect of having Andrew was obvious and the weeds did not stand a chance. Victory to us!
Older people love gardening and it is really good for them. On Gardener's World,a wonderful British television programme, a year or two ago I saw a slot on a ninety seven year old man who was still running his pumpkin business. Sadly, between the filming and the screening he died, but he was gardening until such a late age. True, he had taken to having young people do the digging and carrying, but he did the skilled tasks. An example to us all! Anna Pavord,the gardening writer, was determined to show that women gardeners could do what the male ones could, just to show certain males like the old gardener I once met who declared, "Women can't garden.They can't dig!" Anna lugged logs and benches around for years, but while her gender did not stop her,age began to, and in her fifties she hired a nineteen year old lad one day a week to carry the heavy weights.There is no dishonour or failure in an older person seeking help from a younger one.
So why is gardening good for older people? Let's face it, we cannot move as fast as we once did. As a young man I could hare along, but I have lost the burst of speed that I once had. What older people need is regular, steady activity that exercises muscles but does not overtax them. I get this from gardening and walking; and it is working. Yesterday's visit to the doctor for my medical check up gave me the following blood pressure reading:127/73, which is great for a man of nearly sixty six. My pulse is fast, but I have always had a fast one, so the doctor is not concerned.
Gardening is good for the mind. Whatever the truth of the Adam and Eve story, there is much truth in the view that the ideal lifestyle is tending a garden, resplendent in flowers and rich in vegetables. The sacred is embodied in a garden, which is why humans have tried to express their ideas of the sacred in garden design. The gardener works in harmony with nature, and gets an intuition of its sacredness, not in overwhelming mystical experiences, but through a gentle sense of goodness that calms the soul and elevates the mind. While I don't believe that you are closest to God in a garden, there is certainly a sacred dimension underlying what you are doing.





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Are flagstones in addition to, or in replacement of, flooring?
If they are separate stones aligned continuously across the ground, might there be a problem of things dropping, and getting wedged, between those stones?
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I've missed a bunch of your pages Frank, because I was busy moving across country, so now I have to catch up. I just began a "collection" on G+ about gardening and will share some of yours there, as they all have very useful and interesting information.
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