Right now more than anything you just want to get them back and take it all away am I right? First things first you have got to imagine how they must feel. This reminds me of that tune, "how can you mend a broken heart" The pain is intense and can be crippling. The next thing to do is figure out what's missing.
You can’t fix it if you don't know what broke it. Often times you do know what you've done to break your lovers heart. There are those of you who are clueless as to why. To know exactly what broke your lovers heart or made them fall out of love with you start at the beginning.
Think back to what matters to them, go back to the beginning and remember when you shared your inner most thoughts. Remember the time when you both shared your hopes and dreams.
It is then you will remember what mattered most to them and realize where you dropped the ball.