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The Road to the Wedding Cake

It was a great honour to be asked to make my son's wedding cake ; but was I equal to the task? Here I have charted my progress from normal mum/ mom cook to wedding cake maker.

"Are you sure you want me to make it ? I don't want to spoil your day. Wouldn't you want someone else to do it? " The answer was no. They wanted me to do it. I have done my own baking for years; everything from loaves to cakes to biscuits to desserts. The difference is that my family have always eaten everything I make even when it doesn't turn out perfectly , food is money ; money's food. Eat it ... and they do. A wedding cake however, is rather different. It is a centrepiece of a wedding, half the guests won't even know me and won't have any loyalty to telling me it's marvellous when it isn't. Plus a disaster could spoil their day. OK ! No pressure. The main problem was I had never decorated a wedding cake or indeed any special cake, before in the whole course of all my life. What was I going to do ?
The cupcakes

"Never was there a more expensive wedding cake."

My husband is very down to earth and practical and after adding up all my costs for this declared ,

"Never was there a more expensive wedding cake!"

I needed first of all a new oven/cooker. My cooker was quite old; good enough for us but not equal to the task.

Step 1

We bought a new cooker for a few hundred pounds.

Step 2

My youngest son booked himself and me on a cake decorating course. This was the best money we spent.  The lessons were done by a baker and she only takes up to a maximum of four pupils at a time. In our class there were just the two of us. My youngest son was keen to help make his brother's wedding cake.

Our first efforts were doing proper decorating on cupcakes. Here are my efforts. The teacher taught us how to fill them with jam, how to do a tall 99 swirl and how to do a rose and then how to bi-colour a rose and how to dome the fondant.

I have done so many of these since doing the course.

See the pictures for my efforts. I had never even attempted this before and there I was committed to doing a wedding cake! For my son!

This was a long way though from decorating a wedding cake but I had to start somewhere.

in a PROPER box
the domed cupcakes are in pink

Step 3

I had to have the right equipment. Well I couldn't make it without the right tools, could I ? The purchase of everything I would need was quite substantial.

I now have every size of rolling pin, embossed rolling pins, icing nozzles, cake lifters, icing bags, food colouring gels, cake boards, boxes, edible icing dust, cutters.

Here are a few of my tools;  icing spacers, colouring gel, nozzle and various rolling pin including embossed ones and a cake lifter.

a few of my tools

Step 4

Next we made a simple celebration cake. We learned how to cover a cake, colour the icing and make roses.

My son is very clever at making things and is a perfectionist. Here he is making his celebration cake. He coloured the icing grey and made white roses for the top and trimmed with red ribbon. The roses are made of fondant icing. They look real though don't they!

My youngest son decorating his cake

Step 5

Once the course was finished we needed to practise. And we have done as we didn't want to forget and lose our newly gained skills.

 The first main practice though was for the Christmas Fair at Church. I did "Guess the weight of the cake " and we made a winter wonderland cake.

In the space of a few months, we had gone from being beginners who had never done proper cupcakes to icing a winter wonderland.

I covered the cake and my son coloured the icing and made the Santa hats, leaves, snowmen everything. It was a huge hit at the Church Fair. I could not believe how far we had developed.

WInter Wonderland

The birthday cake

My son then made his son's birthday cake. My grandson loves cars and Lightning Mc Queen  is his favourite. My son therefore made him a  Lightning McQueen cake, colouring the icing , moulding the cake for his boy.

the birthday cake practice

The next practice cakes

We have done two practice cakes now and are confident about what we want to do for the real wedding cake two tiers. I have bought everything I need .

Here are the practices. We have made lilies, roses, daisies and chrysanthemums out of icing for the practice cakes.

When the wedding is done in three weeks time, I shall post a photo of the actual cake as it would be unfair to the lovely bride and groom to do so beforehand.

Here's the practices though, a labour of love of course. But see how far I have come in 8 months.

icing roses
a practice cake
practice cake

Watch out for the real thing in three weeks !

Will I manage it ?

 

3rd April rose practice

The cake

all boxed up and ready to go

2 wedding cakes

My youngest son, who helped make the sugar roses pointed out that as we were transporting the cakes 240 miles, that we should decorate 2 identical cakes in case of mishap. We didn't have a mishap;  but we had two gorgeous cakes.

See below the final thing.

This is one of the 2 final cakes

Baptism cake

I am in great demand now! Hot on the heels of my son's wedding cake 2 weeks ago, my cousin asked me to do the Baptism cake for his grandson's Baptism tomorrow.  I have just finished it.

There are 12 big stars for the 12 Apostles and 12 roses for the 12 fruits of the Spirit, footsteps to follow the Way.

Baptism cake for my cousin's grandchild

July 29th 2016

The latest wedding cake

Who would have thought that about 12 months ago I had never done any icing?

My niece/god-daughter asked me to do her wedding cake  similar but not the same to my son's. The wedding is tomorrow and she is delighted with her cake. I did two chocolate ganache cakes for her too.

Time for a break from cake decorating though I hope. The thought of messing up and spoiling someone's day is too stressful.

I hope you like my cake styles.

My niece's wedding cake July 30th 2016

latest wedding cake

For MIRA

Marmelade wedding favour

Home made marmelade in useful jar as a wedding favour

Baptism Cake

for my granddaughter

Today, we have decorated a Baptism Cake for my new baby granddaughter's Baptism on Sunday.

It is decorated with butterflies made out of sugar as butterflies are a Christian symbol of the Resurrection with the cocoon being the tomb and the butterfly emerging into something beautiful.

Baptism cake

Updated October 21, 2016

Comments

VeronicaDec 16, 2024

The cake has not been started yet. A fruit English Christmas cake is cooked about 6 weeks in advance and then it is wrapped in greaseproof paper and kept in an air-tight tin. It is gorgeous when it comes out. So it will be started on Christmas Eve .

DerdriuMarrinerNov 15, 2024

Your comment four boxes down describes your Christmas cake as having "just come out of the oven."

Did it all get eaten (in one big, greedy, monster but appreciative bite if I'd been there ;-D)?

Do you have a photo opp to share with us all wizzley-ites?

frankbeswickNov 7, 2024

It is worth recalling that our mother was an expert baker. When I was very young she ran a small cake making business. You had good example to follow and you benefited from good advice..

VeronicaNov 2, 2024

I made them out of sugar so yes. All the flowers and snowpeople, stars etc are made out of sugar paste.

DerdriuMarrinerOct 30, 2024

Thank you for your comments below, in answer to my previous observations and questions.

All the cakes, all the cupcakes, all the icings appeal to me and are so photogenic that I feel like my grasp and my reach figure equally in really smelling, tasting and touching them.

But in particular (although I love, love them all), I love the April-rose cupcakes with their red, red-and-white and white options (that lead me to saying I'll take one of each color combination ;-D); baptism cake with its butterflies and its yellowness; the christening cake with its blue stars and its orange, purple, red, white flowers; and the winter wonderland with its snowpersons.

Might the latter, winter wonderland-prettifying snowpeople have been edible?

VeronicaOct 29, 2024

The Christmas cake has just come out of the oven ! nom nom

DerdriuMarrinerOct 29, 2024

Thank you for your comments below, in answer to my previous observation and question.

Lucky husband, lucky you!

That's so sweet of your "stick thin" husband to leave your cake- and cupcake- and icing-corners waste-free!

I might have known since you mentioned his cooperatively, proactively merging all costs into a cost summary that makes DIY cake- and cupcake- and icing-decorating an expensive matter, mightn't I?

VeronicaOct 28, 2024

Derdriu, the cup cakes are iced differently as were practising all the skills together on 12 cakes.

Indeed, the most expensive wedding cake ever when all is added up .

VeronicaOct 28, 2024

My stick thin husband ate all the practice cakes, icing etc

DerdriuMarrinerOct 28, 2024

Thank you for your comment below, on Jun 30, 2017, in answer to my previous, same-day observation and question.

The third paragraph to your introduction advises us that "I have done my own baking for years; everything from loaves to cakes to biscuits to desserts. The difference is that my family have always eaten everything I make even when it doesn't turn out perfectly , food is money ; money's food. Eat it ... and they do."

Who -- ;-D -- ate the practice cakes, cupcakes and icing?

VeronicaJun 30, 2017

Derdriu

Ty the wedding cakes are rather special of course.

I took a photo of the cupcakes before I had finished hem as I wanted to remind myself how to fill a cupcake with jam/ jelly. I frosted them after the photo.

The point on the stars on the Baptism cake had no special significance but the number of stars did and is as described.

Frank was and is a lovely brother but of course could never get the better of a little sister ; still can't ;)

DerdriuMarrinerJun 30, 2017

Veronica, Thank you for sharing your cake-making training and trials. All of them are beautiful although I admit a special fondness to the wedding cake that prompted it all. Why is it that three cupcakes in your first picture are not frosted? Is there a reason why the little stars are five-pointed, and the big six-pointed, on the blue-and-white baptism cake?
P.S. In reading the other comments, I see what Frank experienced as a big brother: the worst has got to be the toilet-water drink!

VeronicaOct 21, 2016

Today, we have decorated a Baptism Cake for my new baby granddaughter's Baptism on Sunday. The photo is bright but is pictured above.

VeronicaJul 31, 2016

Yes it all went well and the cakes seemed to be successful. I have up loaded a photo of the marmalade which came in a great little jar which can be kept for afterwards. As you say......What a great idea .

The Beswicks are all very practical people.

MiraJul 31, 2016

What a great idea to have marmalade s wedding favors :). I hope you too have fun at the wedding today :)

VeronicaJul 30, 2016

Infact our youngest brother has made his own homemade marmalade as wedding favours for today. I always helped with the preserves at home and make all my own jams and red onion marmalade now.

frankbeswickJul 30, 2016

I think that home baking was more than just an Irish tradition, it was common all over. I do say, though, that we were raised with a philosophy that you should be self-reliant and that home-made is best, as far as possible. I have carried on this tradition with home grown vegetables, and you have concentrated on home baking.

I do recall a time when you were rather small, helping mother with her home made marmalade. That was very good stuff indeed.

VeronicaJul 30, 2016

The baking isn't the problem for me. I was brought up in the Irish tradition for home baking. It is decorating them to such a high level that was the issue. But I have overcome that in a short space of time ...as you see. I have quite literally come from icing cup cakes to wedding cakes. My youngest son made the flowers above out of icing sugar.

I have done two chocolate fudge cakes for tomorrow too.

frankbeswickJul 29, 2016

I should have realized that you would be baking the cake for tomorrow's wedding. I am looking forward to eating my slice. It is good to know that you continue our mother's skill of baking lovely cakes.You were well taught and learned your lessons thoroughly.

VeronicaJul 29, 2016

The latest cake which is for tomorrow for our niece's wedding is pictured above.

Who would think I hadn't iced a proper cake before 12 months ago.

VeronicaApr 30, 2016

Thank you, Mira. The cake was successful today and people were interested when I explained what I had designed. I think it lifts the cake from a cake to being a Baptism Cake.

MiraApr 29, 2016

It's nice how you included a bit of symbolism on the cake. Had never seen a baptism cake before!

VeronicaApr 29, 2016

I am in great demand now! Hot on the heels of my son's wedding cake 2 weeks ago, my cousin asked me to do the Baptism cake for his grandson's Baptism tomorrow. I have just finished it. Picture above.

There are 12 big stars for the 12 Apostles and 12 roses for the 12 fruits of the Spirit, footsteps to follow the Way.

10 months ago I was clueless about cake decorating.

VeronicaApr 19, 2016

TY so much. I taught the dumbo everything he knows of course. :)

and yes..... he was the perfect ( well almost ) perfect big brother and still looks out for us all despite the fact that we were monsters to him as kids. And he was, as he is still is, gentle, caring and clever. Not that I would ever tell him that. :) He is more than 7 years older than I am.

MiraApr 19, 2016

How formidable! I saw you had a rapport but would have never guessed you are brother and sister ;-)
Glad you two are on Wizzley :)

VeronicaApr 19, 2016

I have known Frank for nearly 60 years because he is my big brother. So my son is his nephew.

This does not affect anything we may write on Wizzley. On the contrary I am more likely to disagree with him. I could have mentioned it before but I wanted to make my own way on Wizzley without reference to such a wonderful genius as my big brother Frank. I gained 100% very quickly and my own followers by my own merit.

Frank has endured all our teasing and tormenting for 60 years with a quiet dignity. He never rises to it. He used to take us to the library on a Saturday morning, ( walked us two miles and we were wicked ) to church services , out at weekends whilst Mum cleaned the house, sit up next to us at night when we had nightmares and in return we pulled hairs out of his legs while he was sleeping, put holly in his bed, jumped on him off the top of the wardrobe, put bags of sugar on top of the door and shouted help so he got covered when he rushed to help us, got him water to drink out of the toilet when he had jaundice. and much worse.

He grows borage every summer so I can have borage tea for my joints.

As my brother of course he is a pain up the butt :) .

He does LOVE LOVE LOVE good food and I make my smoked mackerel pate especially for him at Christmas and he loves my wedding cake! I am making cupcakes for his granddaughter's baptism in few weeks time. His wonderful wife is an excellent cook.

MiraApr 19, 2016

:)

frankbeswickApr 18, 2016

I attended the wedding, as I know Veronica rather well.

VeronicaApr 18, 2016

No .
I made it and iced it.
My youngest son helped make some flowers for it .
Frank ate it. Well he ate a goodly slice anyway. He put me on to Wizzley so he earned a slice of cake.

MiraApr 18, 2016

Frank, you made this cake, too?:)

VeronicaApr 18, 2016

I am glad you enjoyed it.

frankbeswickApr 17, 2016

Comments on the cake. It was impressive,was well cooked and tasted good. You talk of keeping a cake for six months. Fine, but no cake would last so long with me. Anyone would think that I like fruit cake. As if! Would you believe it of me?

VeronicaApr 17, 2016

Above the final view of the wedding cake. I did two identical cakes as explained above.

See then, that despite being nearly 59 years old, I have mastered a new and useful skill and one that I love. We are never too old to learn. Some people thought the cakes had been professionally made. How's that!

Thanks for all the page views and comments.

MiraApr 13, 2016

Thank you, Veronica!

VeronicaApr 13, 2016

After making a fruit cake with dried fruits, put one tablespoon of brandy over it every week until it is needed. The brandy preserves it. Wrap it up in foil and an airtight container. It can keep up to 6 months.

Delia Smith is the British nation's golden girl of cookery. She is marvellous and much loved. Her recipes are very easy to follow and they work. For anything Brit, look on Delia's site. A lovely lady.

MiraApr 13, 2016

Delia's Web site looks like a great resource. But I confess I'm not familiar with this idea of cakes left to mature. What does it involve?

VeronicaApr 13, 2016

Oh yes of course what a good idea.

It's a basic English rich fruit cake which I made in January and left to mature. It is from the queen of English cooking " Delia Smith "

I love this page because Delia scales everything up or down already for you according to your shape of tin and size ; she has done the calculation hard work.

http://www.deliaonline.com/how-to-cook/baking/scaling-up-cake-recipes.html

Ty for the comments .

MiraApr 13, 2016

Congratulations! It looks fabulous :)
I'd love to know the recipe too!

VeronicaApr 13, 2016

13th April

The cake is done and boxed up as in the photo above. I shall post the unboxed real thing on Sunday. This is a glimpse. I hope you like it.

My youngest son and I have come from total novices to this after just a few lessons. Well worth it. I do feel empowered to try any cake decorating now and am doing a Baptism cake in two weeks time and oh good grief .... my niece's wedding cake in July. I can't believe I am doing another and so soon. :)

VeronicaApr 3, 2016

3rd April.

As I have been asked to take some cupcakes to a party today, I decide to have a practice doing some rose sculpting before making some for the wedding cake next week. It was a good practice. I used two colours, cerise and white and then sculpted the roses with between 4 and 6 pieces of icing.

I hadn't really iced cakes ever before my course. I would never have even attempted or indeed thought of it before that.

The results are above. I hope people like rose cupcakes.

VeronicaMar 29, 2016

You are all giving me so much confidence for the main event. TY so much.

MiraMar 29, 2016

This was a fun read, and your cakes are beautiful!

VeronicaMar 29, 2016

What a lovely thing to say Mari, TY.

I am very anxious about it. I had only ever put a bit of glace icing on cupcakes before this. IT shows what we can do when we put our mind to it and also we are never too old to learn a new skill.

Your support and encouragement mean a lot ty

MaritravelMar 29, 2016

If I ever decide to marry again I'll call on you Veronica. What splendid cakes you've produced there. You'll have no problems - probably get a standing ovation at the reception as well.
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