The Road to the Wedding Cake

by Veronica

It was a great honour to be asked to make my son's wedding cake ; but was I equal to the task? Here I have charted my progress from normal mum/ mom cook to wedding cake maker.

"Are you sure you want me to make it ? I don't want to spoil your day. Wouldn't you want someone else to do it? "

The answer was no. They wanted me to do it.

I have done my own baking for years; everything from loaves to cakes to biscuits to desserts. The difference is that my family have always eaten everything I make even when it doesn't turn out perfectly , food is money ; money's food. Eat it ... and they do.

A wedding cake however, is rather different. It is a centrepiece of a wedding, half the guests won't even know me and won't have any loyalty to telling me it's marvellous when it isn't. Plus a disaster could spoil their day.

OK ! No pressure. The main problem was I had never decorated a wedding cake or indeed any special cake, before in the whole course of all my life.

What was I going to do ?

The cupcakes
The cupcakes
I had never done this before.

"Never was there a more expensive wedding cake."

My husband is very down to earth and practical and after adding up all my costs for this declared ,

"Never was there a more expensive wedding cake!"

I needed first of all a new oven/cooker. My cooker was quite old; good enough for us but not equal to the task.

Step 1

We bought a new cooker for a few hundred pounds.

Step 2

My youngest son booked himself and me on a cake decorating course. This was the best money we spent.  The lessons were done by a baker and she only takes up to a maximum of four pupils at a time. In our class there were just the two of us. My youngest son was keen to help make his brother's wedding cake.

Our first efforts were doing proper decorating on cupcakes. Here are my efforts. The teacher taught us how to fill them with jam, how to do a tall 99 swirl and how to do a rose and then how to bi-colour a rose and how to dome the fondant.

I have done so many of these since doing the course.

See the pictures for my efforts. I had never even attempted this before and there I was committed to doing a wedding cake! For my son!

This was a long way though from decorating a wedding cake but I had to start somewhere.

in a PROPER box
in a PROPER box
How good is that!
the domed cupcakes are in pink
the domed cupcakes are in pink

Step 3

I had to have the right equipment. Well I couldn't make it without the right tools, could I ? The purchase of everything I would need was quite substantial.

I now have every size of rolling pin, embossed rolling pins, icing nozzles, cake lifters, icing bags, food colouring gels, cake boards, boxes, edible icing dust, cutters.

Here are a few of my tools;  icing spacers, colouring gel, nozzle and various rolling pin including embossed ones and a cake lifter.

a few of my tools
a few of my tools

Step 4

Next we made a simple celebration cake. We learned how to cover a cake, colour the icing and make roses.

My son is very clever at making things and is a perfectionist. Here he is making his celebration cake. He coloured the icing grey and made white roses for the top and trimmed with red ribbon. The roses are made of fondant icing. They look real though don't they!

My youngest son decorating his cake
My youngest son decorating his cake

Step 5

Once the course was finished we needed to practise. And we have done as we didn't want to forget and lose our newly gained skills.

 The first main practice though was for the Christmas Fair at Church. I did "Guess the weight of the cake " and we made a winter wonderland cake.

In the space of a few months, we had gone from being beginners who had never done proper cupcakes to icing a winter wonderland.

I covered the cake and my son coloured the icing and made the Santa hats, leaves, snowmen everything. It was a huge hit at the Church Fair. I could not believe how far we had developed.

WInter Wonderland
WInter Wonderland
from cupcakes to this in a few lessons

The birthday cake

My son then made his son's birthday cake. My grandson loves cars and Lightning Mc Queen  is his favourite. My son therefore made him a  Lightning McQueen cake, colouring the icing , moulding the cake for his boy.

the birthday cake practice
the birthday cake practice

The next practice cakes

We have done two practice cakes now and are confident about what we want to do for the real wedding cake two tiers. I have bought everything I need .

Here are the practices. We have made lilies, roses, daisies and chrysanthemums out of icing for the practice cakes.

When the wedding is done in three weeks time, I shall post a photo of the actual cake as it would be unfair to the lovely bride and groom to do so beforehand.

Here's the practices though, a labour of love of course. But see how far I have come in 8 months.

icing roses
icing roses
a practice cake
a practice cake
practice cake
practice cake

Watch out for the real thing in three weeks !

Will I manage it ?

 

3rd April rose practice
3rd April rose practice

The cake

all boxed up and ready to go
all boxed up and ready to go
13th April

2 wedding cakes

My youngest son, who helped make the sugar roses pointed out that as we were transporting the cakes 240 miles, that we should decorate 2 identical cakes in case of mishap. We didn't have a mishap;  but we had two gorgeous cakes.

See below the final thing.

This is one of the 2 final cakes
This is one of the 2 final cakes
for the day.

Baptism cake

I am in great demand now! Hot on the heels of my son's wedding cake 2 weeks ago, my cousin asked me to do the Baptism cake for his grandson's Baptism tomorrow.  I have just finished it.

There are 12 big stars for the 12 Apostles and 12 roses for the 12 fruits of the Spirit, footsteps to follow the Way.

Baptism cake for my cousin's grandchild
Baptism cake for my cousin's grandchild
I will leave it to set over night.

July 29th 2016

The latest wedding cake

Who would have thought that about 12 months ago I had never done any icing?

My niece/god-daughter asked me to do her wedding cake  similar but not the same to my son's. The wedding is tomorrow and she is delighted with her cake. I did two chocolate ganache cakes for her too.

Time for a break from cake decorating though I hope. The thought of messing up and spoiling someone's day is too stressful.

I hope you like my cake styles.

My niece's wedding cake July 30th 2016

latest wedding cake
latest wedding cake

For MIRA

Marmelade wedding favour
Home made marmelade in useful jar as a wedding favour
Home made marmelade in useful jar as a wedding favour

Baptism Cake

for my granddaughter

Today, we have decorated a Baptism Cake for my new baby granddaughter's Baptism on Sunday.

It is decorated with butterflies made out of sugar as butterflies are a Christian symbol of the Resurrection with the cocoon being the tomb and the butterfly emerging into something beautiful.

Baptism cake
Baptism cake
Updated: 10/21/2016, Veronica
 
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Veronica 5 days ago

The cake has not been started yet. A fruit English Christmas cake is cooked about 6 weeks in advance and then it is wrapped in greaseproof paper and kept in an air-tight tin. It is gorgeous when it comes out. So it will be started on Christmas Eve .

DerdriuMarriner on 11/15/2024

Your comment four boxes down describes your Christmas cake as having "just come out of the oven."

Did it all get eaten (in one big, greedy, monster but appreciative bite if I'd been there ;-D)?

Do you have a photo opp to share with us all wizzley-ites?

frankbeswick on 11/07/2024

It is worth recalling that our mother was an expert baker. When I was very young she ran a small cake making business. You had good example to follow and you benefited from good advice..

Veronica on 11/02/2024

I made them out of sugar so yes. All the flowers and snowpeople, stars etc are made out of sugar paste.

DerdriuMarriner on 10/30/2024

Thank you for your comments below, in answer to my previous observations and questions.

All the cakes, all the cupcakes, all the icings appeal to me and are so photogenic that I feel like my grasp and my reach figure equally in really smelling, tasting and touching them.

But in particular (although I love, love them all), I love the April-rose cupcakes with their red, red-and-white and white options (that lead me to saying I'll take one of each color combination ;-D); baptism cake with its butterflies and its yellowness; the christening cake with its blue stars and its orange, purple, red, white flowers; and the winter wonderland with its snowpersons.

Might the latter, winter wonderland-prettifying snowpeople have been edible?

Veronica on 10/29/2024

The Christmas cake has just come out of the oven ! nom nom

DerdriuMarriner on 10/29/2024

Thank you for your comments below, in answer to my previous observation and question.

Lucky husband, lucky you!

That's so sweet of your "stick thin" husband to leave your cake- and cupcake- and icing-corners waste-free!

I might have known since you mentioned his cooperatively, proactively merging all costs into a cost summary that makes DIY cake- and cupcake- and icing-decorating an expensive matter, mightn't I?

Veronica on 10/28/2024

Derdriu, the cup cakes are iced differently as were practising all the skills together on 12 cakes.

Indeed, the most expensive wedding cake ever when all is added up .

Veronica on 10/28/2024

My stick thin husband ate all the practice cakes, icing etc

DerdriuMarriner on 10/28/2024

Thank you for your comment below, on Jun 30, 2017, in answer to my previous, same-day observation and question.

The third paragraph to your introduction advises us that "I have done my own baking for years; everything from loaves to cakes to biscuits to desserts. The difference is that my family have always eaten everything I make even when it doesn't turn out perfectly , food is money ; money's food. Eat it ... and they do."

Who -- ;-D -- ate the practice cakes, cupcakes and icing?


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