Panic attacks are usually brought on by negative or frightening thoughts. The longer the duration of these negative thoughts, the more negatively your body responds with actual physical symptoms that will keep feeding off of each other in a vicious cycle until you are in a full blown panic attack. These fears, as realistic and terrifying as they seem, are usually unfounded and usually irrational. Of course you wonder why you would be so frightened if there was really no danger, but this is just your mind emotionally trying to justify the distorted fear thoughts. It is very important to immediately stop the "fear thought" cycle by:
- Acknowledge the Fear - Take Several Deep Breaths - Distraction - Do Few Quick Exercises or Take a Short Walk
- Acceptance - Don't Run From the Thought of a Panic Attack - The Act of Acceptance Helps Provide a Calm Clarity Needed to Get Through the Attack
- Alternative Response - Don't Get Wrapped Up in the Fear - Avoid the Flight-or-Fight Reaction by the Use of Calming Reaffirmations That You Are Okay and the Fear Will Pass
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Avoid - Abruptly Stop - "Stinkin Thinkin"
Quickly tackling negative thoughts is also a technique that I found especially helpful in feeling better and putting the brakes on an attack. The more negative thoughts such as:, "I'm no good, I'm afraid, I'm not treated fairly, I'm not good enough, I'm not well, I'm not liked, I'm not attractive enough, I'm not appreciated, I'm angry, I'm not in control, I'm socially incompetent", and the list goes on and on, will most definitely lead to feelings of depression, anxiety and general unhappiness. The cliché, "you are what you think", is a very simple but great truth. We are human and at times it is easy to get caught up in, "stinkin thinkin". Knowing this and acquiring the ability to abruptly change the negative thoughts to positive ones will go a long way towards feeling better and tackling the anxiety. This is also emphasized in therapy. A form of distraction is to sit down and write down the negative feelings you are having. Under each negative feeling on the page, write down a positive contrasting feeling. Once done read out loud all of the positive feelings you've listed. Not only does the process of sitting down and writing distract you from the onset of an attack, but it also uses the technique of reciting out loud positive reaffirmations that help modify your thought process.
Use of the above techniques is not a cure all and is part of a science known as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The methods and techniques used in CBT take work, time and patience and are not an overnight solution. For chronic sufferers, they are techniques that must be used on an on-going basis. You might feel much better and suffer fewer attacks over time but that does not mean you are cured for life. However, the practice of these therapies go a long way toward helping alleviate the intensity and frequency of an attack.
I have personally found the book by, David D. Burns, M.D., along with his workbook to be a very helpful tool in my constant battle with panic and anxiety. Dr. Burns discusses his belief about medications used in conjunction with therapy and you should discuss this with your own physician to make informed choices about your own personal treatment plan. With lots of patience, work, and understanding, you too, can conquer panic and take back control.
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cazortFeb 4, 2015
There are also times when I've found the exposure method, or the awareness of hidden emotions, really useful too.
Thank you for sharing this! I think what you write here is spot-on.