Positive attitude has nothing to do with your wife and everything to do with you. A positive spouse means everything lies within your reach, inside you and only you. Did you realize if that someone who is slogging for you, making your meals and taking care of the family and kids really needs a break sometime, Why not give her a break? Offer to do the dishes, go and watch a movie together or just stroll around the park, go to a beach. Sometimes, a simple thing like a romantic vacation or an outing will bring those loving moments together that you had cherished. Give her a massage if her back is paining or prepare a dinner that lives her totally spellbound.












Do you remember to give a gift to your spouse?
DerdriuMarrinerFeb 17, 2023
Your first sentence "You might not realize it but the most important person in your life is your spouse" called to mind something I've been pondering off and on since Seasons 1 through 3 of Magnum PI. Magnum ends up a POW because his girlfriend reveals his mission in exchange for getting her father back. It is a choice between hoping that Magnum and his two BFF and service buddies will keep each other safe until they escape or get free -- which happens -- or saving her father's life -- which she ultimately does, but perishes in the process.
What would one do in real life when the choice is between a parent and a spouse?