Men Who Love Womens Shoes

by katiem2

Many men share a love of ladies and womens shoes enjoying the intense desire to wear heels and pumps themselves and why not?

Today's topic is an open and honest look into why many men love women's shoes. This love does not involve the love of said shoe on a woman's foot, but their own, yes that's right men wearing shoes for ladies! Really how different is it from we girls slipping into our boy friends clothes?

This is a no judgment zone from which we take a practical and honest look into why perfectly normal and straight men love wearing women's shoes.

Men wearing high heels have yet to become the next big thing, unless you're a rock star, cross dresser or female impersonator and yet many an average run of the mill man loves wearing ladies heels, pumps and shoes of all types.

The Shoe Diva in Men

Most all of us have a little show diva in us, regardless if in your face or behind closed doors and men are no exception, men love women's shoes.

While most of us have fantasized about being a rock star the desire to wear heels encompasses more than the desire to rock out on stage.

Many men are wearing heels for an entirely different passion as their love of shoes is far reaching and provocative?

Shall we explore deeper into the world of men wearing women's shoes?

Come along now; don't be shy, if you dare?

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Men and the Addiction to Shoes

Shoes are a long standing addiction for many a living breathing being with two feet.

Despite the often discomfort of wearing high heels, men who are brave enough to do so have learned the addictive allure and attraction. The pull being the way they make you feel. It may have begun the first time you played dress up with your sister or comically pranced around in your girls pumps showing her it's not so hard. Something happens to a person once they slip into a shiny pump.

Many men are now learning the way these shoes have made us women feel for years. These very men run the risk of falling victim to the same addiction we face.

Could the empowerment and freedom of wearing a pair of heels leave men with the same shoe addiction as we women hide within our own forbidden shoe closet? It's time we all come out of the closet and talk about our love of shoes.

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Secrets of Men Who Love Woman's Shoes

Men have long wondered about the many mysteries of being a woman

The truth is men have marveled over the obvious, female only traditions for centuries and the longing to experience these for themselves often starts with a simple question easily answered.

What does it feel like?

Honestly, this female reporter says, "What's not to love about shoes?"

First clear your mind, is your mind clear and free of preconceived notions?

Good, we can proceed. I myself am a girly girl loving all things feminine, pretty and frilly.

I do however love wearing my man's dress shirts, socks and often his jeans. There's just something intoxicating about his loose fitting jeans falling off my body.

It's a nice escape, however temporary, into another world of the opposite sex.

With that in mind, and considering your desire to wear your mans things, imagine why a man might enjoy wearing your things, perhaps your shoes.

This got me thinking, if I enjoy wearing my man's clothes and all the while have intense emotions and desires for him, why couldn't this go both ways?

Life would not be the same without the style and ease of the woman's clog. Take a peek at the trendiest styles in ladies clogs and mules in style again.

The Classic Pump

Childhood Dress up Memories

There is also the amazing dress up fun kids experience as children, how often did you wear the clothes of the opposite sex?

We all know many men just never grow up, could the love of women's shoes be related to a Peter Pan personality?

Lets face it some people are more opened minded than others and struggle with little to no inhibitions when it comes to exploring such things as wearing women's shoes.

Many people tend to stick with the status-quo while others are always questioning and exploring the world around them.

The mysteries of women have long been an interest to many, if not most men.

Men Who Love Women's Shoes

More and more parents are choosing to allow their little boys to play dress up as apposed to deterring those who love doing so.

It's amazing to me that others wonder why many men love collecting women's shoes and even wearing women's clothes. We don't have to be in agreement, but certainly the diverse likes and desires of our blended cultures, races and sexes no doubt leaves us with a very mixed bag of unique people.

Role playing is a natural human function. In a diverse human population that has highly evolved, one might think we've gotten past judgments of others choices. I for one feel we have. However, the curiosity of such choices may raise wonderment in the recesses of others minds and therefore the questions!

The most rugged of men have worn Cowboy boots for ages and yet the heel of a cowboy boot has long been considerably higher than those of the standard men's footwear.

We do love a handsome man in a pair of Cowboy boots do we not?

I for one love a well groomed man dressed to the nines and in fact adore the high fashion male run way models. They are so hot and look fantastic finely groomed, dressed strutting their stuff about. I for one always note the shoes a well dressed man wears.

Cowboy Boots for Men Who Love Women's Shoes

Flats are once again all the rage in fashion footwear trends, they are hotter than ever begging all the more how do we wear flats. Learn what looks great with flats.

Men's Casual Sandals for Women's Shoe Lovers

The History - Men in Womens Shoes

History supports mans love of ladies shoes.

History paints a supportive story of men wearing a more feminine sandal or shoe as is common practice in our modern society. In fact fashion has grown to express a more masculine appeal as that of our ancestors. Men once wore wigs, dresses, skirts, fine silks and more delicate fabrics.

Do forgive me, my most beloved Scottish men still wear kilts, there is nothing sexier than a man in a skirt, in my opinion. The Scots have no problem displaying their masculinity in such garments.

Who's to say we can't take a u turn back into a more delicate world of fashion?

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Flats are getting hotter and sexier than ever, if you love a good flat plus looking gorgeous and turning heads these hot designer flat sandals are exactly what you're looking for

Women's Metro Shoe Fashions

The most recent trend in men’s fashions is a phenomenon known as metro sexual dress.

This is a prominent trend many a hipster embraces.  This is a fashion trend that has been on the rise for years and is certain to stay the course. This trend setting look has great appeal among women as they find it both sexy and pleasing to enjoy a well groomed or more highly maintained man.

This is a fashion trend promoting, creating and embracing men wearing the latest and hippest styles with a more feminine edge if you will.

This trend also supports a more intense grooming routine for men whereas they spend more attention to hair removal and grooming in all areas including nails, hair and skin.

Where to get the best deals on women's heels for men?

  • Shop online using the key word women's plus size shoes.
  • Enjoy the vast online shopping community; seek out sites offering underground deals for cross dressers, female impersonators and rock stars.
  • These are all places to find amazing high heel shoes to fulfill your most inner desires and get your heels on.
  • Enjoy buying my favorite picks here at this site today.

It's still to be seen if a major run on high-heeled loving men surface making for a new fashion trend.

While its true most men long to have their feet in a flat comfy shoe you will no doubt take note of many a fashion forward men changing things now that I've brought it to your attention.

Many men are bringing the more historical noble look back to the forefront once more as the heels begin to rise and take notice.

Enjoy your fashion freedom and exploration.

Much Love and Happiness, Katie

Shoe Conversion Chart

Learn the size you need in shoes comparing mens to womens sizes.

I've included a conversion chart to better help you understand the correct womens size for you.

Updated: 11/23/2012, katiem2
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Chat about men who love women's shoes

Tyler 1 day ago

I like all womens shoes High Heels, Wedges, Flats, Sneakers, & Sandals. For me it's not really a fetish I just like to wear something different around the house. It's just feels so natural to wear sometimes. I'm glad I discovered this site.

AJ on 07/14/2016

I have had a fascination with women's high heels, mainly the closed toe pump. I do collect them in women sizes for glamour/fetish photography and art work. I don't wear them or have the desire to but to see them on a woman is what appeals to me. Women tell me that they like to be photographed while wearing them as they state they feel sexy in them.

Walt on 05/15/2016

All the comments about sexuality and fetishes. Speaking for myself, it has nothing to do with that. It's about freedom. Freedom to wear what you want in spite of society's taboo on something. For me, it never was high heels, but white sandals...strappy ones in particular. So what? Who am I hurting and why does that offend you? Consciously, I just really like them just like any of my other hobbies. I have four dirt bikes and love all things dirt bike related. I build a fly several RC aircraft. I consider my time spent researching planes, on the simulator, etc, no different from my time on the internet buying sandals for my collection...just another hobby. Perhaps subconsciously, the inner rebel does like the fact that it pisses the prudish woman or man next to me at the gas pump when I'm sporting my flat white strappy sandals. But really, I just want you do not have a reaction that upsets you and just leave me alone.

Mike on 02/23/2016

Ive struggled with my Love of womens heeled footwear for years, I love Boots and Pumps and have a collection which many women would be envious of. Ive learned to accept this is a part of me and its nice to know Im not alone. I have jeans, western boots which I do wear out but havent worn heels out. So nice to look at and wear the feeling is like none other, Im wearing Stuart Weitzman Goliath right now. I dont know if its a hobby, a fetish combo of both. I have The Hyper in stiletto also. Is Ebay a blessing or a curse? lol Ive never really discussed this anywhere or with anyone before. I think Im at a point in life I where things can be different. Being in a smaller rural area I dont think many would be very accepting of my tastes. Guess, some Steve Madden, BCBG, 4 pair Stuart W, even a few pairs of Gianmarco Lorenzi, all so nice.I just love that high arch feeling . Is it wrong to be jealous seeing a pretty gal dressed to the nines with high heels on? I see her and what she wears. It would be wonderful to find a woman who'd accept that in a guy.

Steve on 11/04/2015

Hi All, I too love to wear women's shoes I only like to wear jellie shoes I have been wearing them for years in the summer that's all I wear my feet are tanned and the shape of the sandals are in the tan. I have many pairs but last year I decided to raise money for breast cancer reserch by wearing the heeled jellie sandals for one week so I bought a pair of woven jellie sandals from American apparel in the clear plastic. Well I wore them out every where I went and I enjoyed every minute of it they are so nice to wear I wear them around the house now and sometimes wear them when I go out but my wife will not go out with me when I wear them funny but when I wore them for charity she would go out with me. But I have bought more pairs since I wore them to raise money. I am a straight guy but just love to wear these shoes they are so cumfi and I personally don't think that they look out of place on a man when worn with jeans.

Jim on 11/04/2015

Hi: I love to wear women's shoes of all types. In fact, I wear women's walking shoes with my shorts and shirts in the summer. In fact, the shorts that I wear are also women's. I prefer them to men's because there are more styles and types than men's shorts. I also wear all women's shoes in the winter, being booties, actual boots, dress oxfords, and wedge heels. Wedge heels are my favorite because they are so comfortable for all day wear and with levi's, they really look good. Levi's are all women's, as I do not own any men's, as they are not as comfortable or good looking. I do not understand why it is not acceptable for men to wear women's clothing, especially when women wear men's clothes all the time. I can tell you that men can wear anything they want, if they do it with care and act sensibly. I have only had one women ask about my wedge heeled shoes and she made the comment that I was wearing women's shoes, and my response was "so are you". She smiled and walked away. By this time you are probably thinking that I am gay, but that is the farthest thing from the truth. I am in a very committed relationship with the most fantastic woman on the planet. I do wear high heels, but only around the house. However, on long road trips I will drive with them on. Sometimes I will wear a skirt with them while driving, as it is really comfortable. The bravest thing that I do is occasionally I will wear heels and a skirt to a fast food drive through to get an order. That is such a "turn on". I do it for the thrill and also I am waiting to see if anyone ever notices. So far no one has, or at least they have not appeared to have or said anything. By this time, it is clear that I believe that men should be able to "wear what they want, when they want", without fear of ridicule or worse.

Ilovetoputonsexylady on 11/03/2015

This is what I'm wearing right now

Histiletto on 10/25/2015

Hey Armando! You are among many other guys in your efforts to wear the choice of footwear that makes you feel better about your appearance, even though the shoes were labeled for girls. As you have chosen, I also like to wear women's high heel pumps. To me, these labels are references to know where to go and what to shop for, just like I would shop for hammers in the tools section and not in the video area. We are all individuals with our own tastes, whether they are for clothes, colors, vehicles, hobbies, vacation spots, and etc. Each of us have the right to choose the presentation of our appearance. This is how it has always been meant to be, but since almost the beginning of the civilized world, society has usurped that personal right. Who knows better than that individual what their tastes are? It is true that society has the responsibility to set standards, but when those standards infringe upon ones personal right to choose the attire they prefer to wear, then it has violated the natural laws of personal agency. Any item of attire doesn't care who chooses to wear it, for this is a human trait to make decisions. When others force you to wear the items they deem appropriate, it is a form of slavery or bullying. The again, if they have the right to bully you, then justice gives you the right to make them wear what you want them to. How turned about is this situation? This forcing others to wear someone else's choices, is obviously not the way it was meant to be.

Armando on 10/25/2015

I'm married with two children and I like to wear girl's shoes and clothing, very nice,

katiem2 on 08/21/2015

Luke, You are welcome Luke. I am so happy you understand. Don't get me wrong I have a very passionate view on the many issues brought up...we live in such a political climate...

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