Tips on How to Go Grey - Creative Care for Beautiful Grey Hair

The best way to graduate from your usual all-over colour is to talk to your hairdresser about your transition.

Soft highlights might be suggested as a subtle way to gently go back to your natural colour. In this way any blatant re-growth will be disguised. Gradually reduce the number of highlights over the coming months, allowing the grey to take over.

Going grey slowly avoids the unattractive ‘badger effect’ – dark hair with stripy highlights!

If your natural grey hair is too dark for your liking, try foils or a high lift tint. These are great options if you want to go more than three shades lighter than your natural grey. If in doubt, consider talking to the colour technician at your salon. He or she will be able to advise on shades to suit your skin tones.

Should women over fifty go for long hair? Not according to celebrity hairdresser, Lee Stafford.

In Yours magazine, May 2010, he is quoted as saying that as women age, hair can become finer and he suggests that for this reason hair should be no longer than just below the shoulders. Even then it should have plenty of shorter layers to give shape and volume.

These observations don’t hold for everyone and they are just one person's professional opinion. Some older women have allowed their natural grey hair to grow down their backs with stunning results. They therefore have the choice of many natural or classic, sophisticated styles.

If you feel comfortable with this style and your hair is thick and in great condition, then go for it – it’s your choice.

It has to be acknowledged that there is a mountain of prejudice out there against women who let their hair go grey. Even supermodels like Yasmina above, have had to run the gauntlet.

Unlike their male counterparts who are referred to as 'silver foxes' women in the public eye who go naturally grey have been subject to extreme misogeny.

Here's an article that explores this attitude, from The Globe & Mail.

However, once you've decided to take the plunge you'll  find the decision to go grey becomes very empowering! 

Aging hair needs special attention and there are now many products on the market that reflect this. Grey hair that is fine and/or limp will benefit from a good cut, as mentioned above. 

Build on this foundation by the use of body-boosting shampoos and conditioners for extra lift, such as Dove Pro Age Full and Thick Shampoo and Conditioner, or Glam Larger-Than-Life Shampoo and Conditioner. There are many good products to choose from.

Before drying the hair, apply a thickening spray to the roots. Products like TIGI Bed Head Superstar Thickening Spray or John Frieda Luxurious Volume will give an added boost.

If your grey hair looks dull there are professional conditioning treatments available at your salon that can help to restore shine, such as L’Oreal Symbio. This gives the hair glossy results by coating each hair strand with an invisible shield.

Grey hair is fast losing its negative image.  Some of our most prestigious female role models are celebrating their natural locks.   The tide is turning and many women are embracing their grey, white and silver hair with pride. 

Yes, it can be a bit scarey at first. 

But don't forget, it's not written in stone.  If you don't feel happy with your grey hair, grab the colourant!

However, there is a tremendous relief that comes with going 'natural'.  Maybe it's just the freedom to say, "This is me"!

Hopefully you'll find that with care and confidence grey hair really can be an older woman’s crowning glory.