Paternal care doesn't end with the grave. Gary Galka has the natural instincts of any good father. He wants to know that his wife and children are all okay; and that includes the one who died.
Melissa Galka (pictured) was just seventeen-years-old when she was killed. Her car span out of control and collided with a tree.
Her father was summoned to the scene by distraught friends of his daughter. He held her hand, reassuring her as she lay dying; only getting out of the way when fire-fighters needed to use the Jaws of Life to free her.
Afterwards, during the whole grieving process, he said that one of the worst things of all was not knowing if she was alright. Wherever she was. As her father, it was a question which haunted his mind.
Then things took a decidedly supernatural turn.
Gary told his story to Dave Juliano and Marti Haines, on the Paranormal Straight Talk podcast show (Sept 21st 2012). (It's available from the iTunes store, free of charge.) He explained how his other daughter would frequently see Melissa sitting in her room, brushing her hair. How he and his wife would be awoken in the night by an unseen finger poking their shoulders. How the doorbell would ring with no-one there; or the TV channels turn over on their own. He felt his bed depress, as an invisible someone sat on the edge of the mattress.
The Galka family did not need a medium to tell them that Melissa was still home. They could sense her presence all around them.
As a good father, beset with the need to check on his child, Gary turned to what he knew. He set about inventing a device which would allow communication with his daughter. He succeeded.





The ghost hunting gadgets that Gary Galka produced have since become legendary within the sector.


On Paranormal Straight Talk, Gary Galka spoke about the personal attacks, upon himself and his family, since he started manufacturing his ghost hunting devices.


Obviously no-one would have wished that tragic accident to have occurred in 2004. That it did, and so profoundly affected a man with such technological genius, can only be a boon to the world of paranormal investigation.
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JoHarringtonOct 15, 2014
frankbeswickOct 11, 2014
Religions must avoid a situation in which doctrine becomes a prison for the mind rather than a springboard to higher understanding.
JoHarringtonOct 9, 2014
One of the main reasons that Wicca fits me so well is its propensity to pick and choose from various religions, philosophies and still retain proven knowledge coming from the academe. It is definitely our strength.
frankbeswickOct 9, 2014
I have criticized the narrow materialistic philosophy of the enlightenment, but I also must say that religions which make a world-view purely out of their own scriptures are also at fault. Catholicism accepts that the Bible alone is not enough and that we must learn from what Scholastics knew as natural philosophy [science etc], and that's an advantage, though I don't think we have learned enough, but to base a world-view on the Bible alone, as creationists do, is a path to disaster.
JoHarringtonOct 8, 2014
And a resounding YES to all that you said in your first paragraph here.
frankbeswickOct 8, 2014
Sometimes a hardened skeptic is forced to change. A good case of this is in the book, A Pattern of Islands, by Arthur Grimble, in the chapter "The Limping Man of Makin Meang. " Grimble, a colonial officer, was intent on giving a rollicking to an islander for walking past and ignoring a command, only to find out that the man had already died when Grimble had seen and spoken to him. But Grimble had the courage to admit to his odd experiences. Others have kept quiet about them through fear.
JoHarringtonOct 8, 2014
I didn't know there was a name for the summoner, but the phenomenon is downright endemic amongst my friends and family. I've heard about it time and time again, relating to so many different deathbeds.
frankbeswickOct 8, 2014
I have for some time believed that the standard heaven and hell model, where you are sent to one destination or the other and do not leave, is simplistic; I also believe that the afterlife is other than we think it is, containing many mysteries beyond mortal ken. Mark chapter 5 seems to show Jesus being unwilling to cast evil spirits into hell. This is not consistent with mainline theology. Only today I was talking to a bereaved in-law about the summoner, the phenomenon whereby the dying sometimes see their deceased relatives. It has happened in my family, and it seems common. Again, this is not consistent with mainline theology.
JoHarringtonOct 8, 2014
Given that this was the 80s - at the height of the AIDS scare - there had been a sermon a few weeks before, which was downright homophobic. The vicar actually preached that homosexuality was a sin, with my gay friend sitting right alongside me. I was already feeling a little disillusioned with the church, and the Curate effectively ensured that I'd be walking away after that evening.
Years later, I know that there are good and bad clerics in every religion. It shouldn't reflect upon the religion itself. It sound like you and your son have met more than your fair share of the bad ones too.
frankbeswickSep 28, 2014
When I spent three years in the religious life [I was not very close to ordination] I developed an animosity to clerics who loved power. I had several serious disagreements with other students [and the superior] about authoritarianism, the corruption of religion and the way that some clerics love to hang on to power systems. The superior waved me a fond farewell at the door, happy to see the back of me. You might gather that I am not universally popular with the members of the clergy. Don't think that because I go to mass I am loved by every cleric. I think for myself.
JoHarringtonSep 28, 2014
frankbeswickSep 28, 2014
I think that you are on to something [you usually are!] when you suggest that some Christians deny the supernatural because they see heaven and earth as separate. My sister who is a devout, traditionalist Christian, and I disagree on the existence of ghosts, even though mother was a psychically sensitive person who apparently could see them.
JoHarringtonSep 28, 2014
I hadn't heard of Odda until now, but he sounds fascinating. I wonder if he told Columcille what he saw.
frankbeswickSep 25, 2014
Purgatory is mediaeval Catholic, and I do not know of any Jewish teaching on it.
My belief is that it seems strange for God to spend so much effort in making a home for humans on Earth, just to get them of it. The world is our home, and in saying this I am being quite consistent with Scripture. Jesus spoke less about heaven than about the Age to Come, so the ultimate goal for humans is in this world. Thus I regard heaven as not another world, but some state in this one, though I do not understand it. I also see a place for reincarnation, a belief on which I stumbled in my late thirties, before which I did not believe in it. What is to stop God sending souls back to continue their work or development? Many early Christians held this belief.
There are elements in the Bible inconsistent with the standard theology of heaven and hell. Mark chapter 5 shows Jesus confronting evil spirits but being unwilling to cast them into the pit, yet this is inconsistent with the official Christian theology. The idea that hell is a prison is inconsistent with the fact that spirits can be effective in this world.
You might recall the story of Odda, one of Columcille's monks at Iona. As a kind of sacrifice he agreed to be buried alive for three days when the monastery was being founded, and on being dug up again he gave the worrying message that heaven and hell are not what they were said to be. Columcille [Columba] imposed silence on him. But we have sat on this challenging experience for a long time.
JoHarringtonSep 25, 2014
You've really had me thinking about Heaven, after your last comment. Which is quote a feat! Naturally the dimension shift Heaven feels right to me, because it's so closely aligned to what I believe anyway. But I've been musing on it from a Christian perspective and it still looks right.
It would explain all of those Christian ghosts, who claim to come back once to save someone, then dash off again.
I love that you're so learned about religion. You've taught me so much over the years. I look forward to our cants on things, particularly when the subject is reasonably obscure and we're trying to work things out. *I'm looking at you Tydecho....*
frankbeswickSep 24, 2014
JoHarringtonSep 23, 2014
And yes, I definitely believe that we go on.
JoHarringtonSep 23, 2014
I've never heard any Christian say before that Heaven is another dimension on this plane, not some 'other' place. That's totally repositioned the Christian Afterlife into something akin to what I believe too. Fascinating! Thank you.
leeSep 21, 2014
No matter where the afterlife is... heaven or earth, the most important thing to remember that there is an afterlife and that we do not just die!
frankbeswickSep 21, 2014
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JoHarringtonSep 21, 2014
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leeSep 20, 2014
JoHarringtonMar 28, 2014
frankbeswickMar 28, 2014
JoHarringtonMar 28, 2014
I love that phrase, 'the certainty of the mediocre'. I'll be using that one now. Thanks!
Ditto with me, Annwn and reincarnation. It's the version that makes the most sense to me, but can I be sure that it'll happen that way? Nope. I'm not dead.
frankbeswickMar 28, 2014
Am I right about heaven? For me, heaven is a promise and a gift, but I have the view that the theologians have a truncated view of the afterlife that does not do justice to its subtlties. As for leaving the fire escape door open for you, I do not believe that heaven is just for Christians. It is a divine gift for all who are willing to accept it. The present pope says more or less the same thing.
JoHarringtonMar 27, 2014
JoHarringtonMar 27, 2014
To my mind, the truth is that none of us know for certain what happens to us after we die, until that moment when we die. It might be that you're right and that there is a Heaven (in which case, I hope you'll leave the fire escape door open for me to nip in). Or I'm right, and it's a bit of time chilling out on Annwn, before reincarnation kicks in. Or my Atheist friend is right, and it's dust and nothing much else.
It's daft any of us arguing over things that we're pretty much guessing, and which can't be proved. I respect your view, and I enjoy reading it, so that I can muse on the same. Even if it ultimately doesn't ring right for me, the contemplation might throw up something akin that does.
I certainly agree with the quotation from Hamlet, but then I've seen ghosts. I saw one today. It's a quote that therefore hits close to home.
JoHarringtonMar 27, 2014
ShellyMar 23, 2014
frankbeswickMar 22, 2014
My view is that as God is superintelligent, he is too clever to settle for a simple heaven/hell option, which is somewhat unintelligent. There is therefore more to the afterlife than the theologians with their limited imagination have thought; and I do not believe that the dead have no contact with those that they leave behind.
Nelda_HoxieMar 22, 2014
JoHarringtonMar 27, 2013
I'm not sure if we're the only creatures on Earth to know that we will die though. But it's hard to prove or disprove something like that.
Those who don't believe in what Gary Galka believes see that as a lie. But he's only a liar if he knows it to be an untruth, yet he peddles it anyway. He believes in what he does, so it's his truth. None of us can know what's truth or lies here, until we die and find out.
chris wagnerMar 27, 2013
.i actually think its amazing that gary came up with something that can let him know when mel is there with him or hear here and so on expecially after a tradgic event take place like that in his life.
chris wagnerMar 27, 2013
i knew speed had to be involved in it i know if she was going the speed limit she wouldnt have had a accident that bad where it looked like she hit a land mine.and as i said above it could just have been her way of getting called home sometimes we as people get selfish and dont want our friends, family etc leave us before what we would say is before there time.one day we will all meet again just in a different form.but i think before i reach that point in my life when its time for me to go 6 feet under its a mystery that will always have me asking these type of questions.people are the only creatures on earth that know one day we will die.
JoHarringtonMar 26, 2013
I'm so sorry to hear about your Grandpa. My condolences to you and your family.
The reality is that none of us can ever know what happens after death. It may be Heaven, or any of the equivalents imagined in myth and religion. It may be that we're Earthbound, continuing on in some form or another. Our energy never destroyed but transformed. Or it may be nothing at all.
The greatest mystery is saved for last, before we get to solve it. There's too much life to explore first.
As for Mel Galka, she wasn't drunk. She had been drinking, but she wasn't over the drinking limit. Nor did she fall asleep. She was driving too fast, trying to keep up with the car in front, which was driven by her friend. She lost control of her car and that was just a very tragic accident.
It could well be that not all things have meaning. They just are, or they just happen. Or it could be that Fate actually is a part of our existence. Again nothing can be proved either way.
chris Mar 26, 2013
and once i heard this story its really stuck with me my grandpa passed away in aug 6 last year which its still hard on me but ive been wondering alot lately what happens when we pass away.even for me going to church its still something that i dont understand.ive never really understood it either that people like mel was taken so soon and the bad guys are still here.
JoHarringtonMar 26, 2013
Some people will say anything in order to force their opinion. It's not fair. But all power to Gary Galka for finding a positive in a terrible situation.
chris wagnerMar 26, 2013
JoHarringtonFeb 26, 2013
I'm pleased that you've found some healing in this difficult time. :)
ShellyFeb 26, 2013
JoHarringtonFeb 25, 2013
I can understand people being judgmental to a certain extent. If those individuals don't believe in the afterlife, nor do they believe that equipment like this actually works, then all they see is vulnerable people being parted from their money. People like Gary Galka become little more than vultures swooping in on the grief-stricken from that viewpoint.
None of this gives them a mandate for personal attacks. The unfortunate part of that is in the behavior of these people. They are so adamant in their belief that they will pull the rug from under the very people they are purporting to want to help. They're saying, "I don't believe in what you believe. For that reason, I am going to take away your hope. You may be grieving but be rational!"
I dislike evangelism in all its forms. Such responses are nothing to do with helping people. It's about shoving an anti-afterlife point of view down the throats of everyone in the vicinity.
For me, the jury is very much out on whether Gary Galka's equipment works, because I've never used it. But when people are reporting results, then that leaves the field wide open. I do believe in the afterlife, so I'm a little more open-minded on the whole subject.
PeanutFeb 25, 2013
I have lost both of my parents in the last 2 years at the age of 36. It has been hard and I plan on trying to communicate with them. I feel it would give me some closure and help me to move on with my life more. I will be purchasing some equipment from Gary Galka. I believe and know that we move on, but can still come back to communicate in many ways to our loved ones. I could go on for days about the communication I have already gotten from my mother. Here is a breif one;
I had a really big test for my nursing this day and was sitting in my car telling my mom all about it and told her to tell me it would be ok. I was listening to the radio at the same time. So I went took my test, got back in the truck to come home and when I started it the volume was turned up, on the CD I had in (not the radio) and was playing me and my mom's favorite songs, "baby, your a firework, come on show what your worth" Katie Perry firework. Now I had it on the radio not the CD and the track was track number five and it had be turned up. Huuummm? I said thanks mom I needed that and we sung it together on the ride home.
JoHarringtonFeb 24, 2013
Have you found that it's allowed you to move on with your own life more?
ShellyFeb 24, 2013
JoHarringtonFeb 23, 2013
I'm guessing from your comment that you've had first hand experience of EVP. I'm glad that it helped you, and I'm sorry for your own loss.
ShellyFeb 23, 2013
JoHarringtonSep 24, 2012
That was a lovely story about your father. Thank you for sharing it. <3
IrenoSep 24, 2012
Here's my experience.
I dreamed about my father cutting trees in our farm. I told my sister about it and requested her to go to the place. Fair enough, my mother's relatives already did cut the trees that my father planted when he was still alive.
JoHarringtonSep 24, 2012
Thank you for reading and commenting!
JoHarringtonSep 23, 2012
There are crazies on all sides.
RagtimelilSep 23, 2012