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Gary Galka: From Electrical Engineer to Ghost-Hunter

It took a personal tragedy to shift Gary Galka's attention towards the paranormal. Now he's using his engineering skills to speak with his deceased daughter.

The knock on the door signaled a parent's worst nightmare. Gary Galka rushed to the scene, where his teenage daughter Melissa lay dying in a car wreck. As he held her hand, and told her that everything would be alright, he could have been forgiven for believing that this was the last conversation they would ever have. But death was just the beginning. Convinced that Melissa was trying to contact him, Gary turned his technological knowledge onto producing gadgets to help her.

How Tragedy Turned Gary Galka onto Ghost Hunting

As a qualified and successful electrical engineer, Gary Galka had all the skills he needed to make ghost-hunting equipment.

Paternal care doesn't end with the grave. Gary Galka has the natural instincts of any good father.  He wants to know that his wife and children are all okay; and that includes the one who died.

Melissa Galka (pictured) was just seventeen-years-old when she was killed. Her car span out of control and collided with a tree.

Her father was summoned to the scene by distraught friends of his daughter. He held her hand, reassuring her as she lay dying; only getting out of the way when fire-fighters needed to use the Jaws of Life to free her.

Afterwards, during the whole grieving process, he said that one of the worst things of all was not knowing if she was alright.  Wherever she was. As her father, it was a question which haunted his mind.

Then things took a decidedly supernatural turn.

Gary told his story to Dave Juliano and Marti Haines, on the Paranormal Straight Talk podcast show (Sept 21st 2012).  (It's available from the iTunes store, free of charge.)  He explained how his other daughter would frequently see Melissa sitting in her room, brushing her hair.  How he and his wife would be awoken in the night by an unseen finger poking their shoulders. How the doorbell would ring with no-one there; or the TV channels turn over on their own.  He felt his bed depress, as an invisible someone sat on the edge of the mattress.

The Galka family did not need a medium to tell them that Melissa was still home.  They could sense her presence all around them.

As a good father, beset with the need to check on his child, Gary turned to what he knew. He set about inventing a device which would allow communication with his daughter. He succeeded.

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Gary Galka has so far invented over thirty items to assist paranormal investigators in contacting the other side.

The ghost hunting gadgets that Gary Galka produced have since become legendary within the sector.

It is his equipment which is used by famous teams, like Zak, Nick and Aaron from Ghost Adventures, and Dave and Marti from Paranormal Straight Talk.  They have all testified to both its accuracy and effectiveness out in the field.

Initially, Gary applied his engineering knowledge in his work-shop solely for personal reasons. He was well aware that his daughter was trying to reach him, but it was like trying to make a call without a 'phone. 

As time went by, it was pointed out to him that other bereaved families might benefit from his growing catalog of ghost hunting devices. Not to mention professional ghost hunters too. He agreed to sell them on the basis that he could make money for several charities that had provided assistance to himself and his family, in their hour of need.

Even today, with an international reputation for excellence, the Galka family still put aside a third of all profits.  That goes into bereavement counselors, scholarship funds for disadvantaged children and a host of other charities too.

By going commercial, with D.A.S. Distribution Inc.,  Gary knew that he would leave himself open to censure.  What he didn't realize was quite how bad it would be.

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Attacks on Gary Galka Over the Mel-8740 Range

It appears that Dawkin-bashing fundies would stop at nothing to chase Galka out of the market, including publicizing lies about his dead daughter.

On Paranormal Straight Talk, Gary Galka spoke about the personal attacks, upon himself and his family, since he started manufacturing his ghost hunting devices.

The situation became much worse after they were featured on Ghost Adventures in April 2012.

One of the most distressing moments came when a blogger, taking her cue from a website, tried to discredit the whole story. Her issue was that Melissa Galka had been drunk when she crashed her car.

That simply wasn't true.  She had been at a party and alcohol was consumed, but post-mortem tests proved that she was below the legal drink-driving limit. It took legal action and a court injunction before the slander was removed from the internet.

However, the damage had been done. Suddenly Gary found himself publicly berated for not using his public platform to speak about the dangers of drunken driving. People openly yelled at him for channeling his energies into the paranormal, when he could have been leading a moral crusade instead.

I found this incredible. Even if Melissa had been paralytic at the wheel, what did that have to do with communication from beyond the grave?  She would still have been on the other side.

Others took umbrage at his apparent 'cashing in on his daughter's death'.  This deeply upsets Gary.  He listed the charities that would do without funding, if he was to stop right now.  He also pointed out how often he gives his equipment away for free, if poverty stricken individuals show promise with the technology.

There was yet a third common criticism, which was that he gave false hope to grieving families. When they 'think' they can hear their lost son or daughter through his EVP recorders, then they believe them still close by.

And the problem is?  Gary got all defensive at this point, reeling off endless stories about how bereft parents had thanked him. 

Personally, I don't think he should have even addressed the point.  He gave hope to grieving families! If they even believed enough to seek out his devices and services, then such matters factor into their worlds. 

I hate fundamentalism in any way, shape or form.  That includes those so entrenched in their own certainties - that there is no afterlife and no way of contacting it - that they wish to trash all hope and all belief.

But Gary isn't taking all of the attacks lying down. He's challenged any scientist to allow him into their labs with his paranormal investigation equipment. He is so confident that he'll be able to reproduce his results under test conditions, that he's slapped down a $10k bet against it. The money, of course, will be donated to charity.

So far, no-one has taken up that particular gauntlet.

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The Future for Gary Galka

As an electrical engineering businessman, he still has a lot of work to do; and it might not necessarily be for paranormal enthusiasts.

Obviously no-one would have wished that tragic accident to have occurred in 2004.  That it did, and so profoundly affected a man with such technological genius, can only be a boon to the world of paranormal investigation.

The ghost hunting gismos are just a small part of what D.A.S. Distribution Inc. creates, in that little workshop in Connecticut, USA.  But it's enough to keep six people in work during a time of recession.

Gary told Paranormal Straight Talk that he has plenty of ideas for yet more equipment, but he doesn't know if they will ever be produced. He's so busy with his ordinary work!  But that which has made the leap from his mind to his workbench has been guided by Melissa.

He knows what his little girl needs and, as her father, he still wants to provide it for her.  That's how the paranormal investigation devices came into being; and what would cause future ones to be made too.

At the end of the day, he just wants to be sure that his daughter is alright.

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Comments

JoHarringtonOct 15, 2014

You don't need to turn me against Justinian. He caused so much damage out there. I can well believe that he fixed this one too. Aquinas was a wise man. Reading your final sentence, it's confirmed once again that you are too.

frankbeswickOct 11, 2014

Aquinas says "Light opposes not light, nor does truth oppose truth." Ultimately, any religion which excludes truths must be in error to some degree. This means that to avoid this pitfall theology must be open ended and without a defensive wall against new ideas. Thus, for example, the decision of the council of Constantinople in 553 to ban belief in the pre-existence of the soul was not only short sighted, but has limited Christian theology since that time. There are many, of whom I am one who regard that council as a fix by Justinian and therefore no true council, so we don't follow its requirements. But you see here how this council has created a kind of wall against ideas.

Religions must avoid a situation in which doctrine becomes a prison for the mind rather than a springboard to higher understanding.

JoHarringtonOct 9, 2014

You've certainly sold me on the idea of reading that book. :)

One of the main reasons that Wicca fits me so well is its propensity to pick and choose from various religions, philosophies and still retain proven knowledge coming from the academe. It is definitely our strength.

frankbeswickOct 9, 2014

Grimble was passing through a sacred grove through which islanders thought the souls of the dead passed. He could not decide whether he had seen a ghost or received the impact of the dying man's thoughts as he passed away. In this book Grimble is honest about his limitations as a person and attributes his silliness at times to being a young man. As an old man writing this book, he shows that he has learned wisdom and humility.

I have criticized the narrow materialistic philosophy of the enlightenment, but I also must say that religions which make a world-view purely out of their own scriptures are also at fault. Catholicism accepts that the Bible alone is not enough and that we must learn from what Scholastics knew as natural philosophy [science etc], and that's an advantage, though I don't think we have learned enough, but to base a world-view on the Bible alone, as creationists do, is a path to disaster.

JoHarringtonOct 8, 2014

Wow! It seems that Grimble had courage. So many deny their truths, considering the truth of peer pressure superior to their own senses.

And a resounding YES to all that you said in your first paragraph here.

frankbeswickOct 8, 2014

That you have heard of this phenomenon from so many different death beds confirms my view that there is nothing abnormal about the paranormal. Normality was socially defined by materialists in the eighteenth century, at the enlightenment, but they seriously erred in making a norm out of their limited life experience and ontology. As a result those who have experiences out of the socially agreed box of the normal are belittled as hallucinating, of dubious sanity or simply lying. But they are not.

Sometimes a hardened skeptic is forced to change. A good case of this is in the book, A Pattern of Islands, by Arthur Grimble, in the chapter "The Limping Man of Makin Meang. " Grimble, a colonial officer, was intent on giving a rollicking to an islander for walking past and ignoring a command, only to find out that the man had already died when Grimble had seen and spoken to him. But Grimble had the courage to admit to his odd experiences. Others have kept quiet about them through fear.

JoHarringtonOct 8, 2014

I did know that, because after the Curate's lecture, I made it my business to find out. I spend a lot of my later teenage years telling folk about the Curate who didn't believe in ghosts. Ending with a punchline - 'I wonder if that included the Holy Ghost?'

I didn't know there was a name for the summoner, but the phenomenon is downright endemic amongst my friends and family. I've heard about it time and time again, relating to so many different deathbeds.

frankbeswickOct 8, 2014

Do you know that Christianity has no teaching on ghosts, so the cleric who lectured you was overstepping the mark, presenting his personal opinion as Christian teaching. No council of the church has declared on the matter, and Scripture has not done so. But in the Bible story of Jesus' walking on water, the apostles were afraid that they were seeing a ghost. Jesus calmed them, but did not teach that ghosts are non-existent.

I have for some time believed that the standard heaven and hell model, where you are sent to one destination or the other and do not leave, is simplistic; I also believe that the afterlife is other than we think it is, containing many mysteries beyond mortal ken. Mark chapter 5 seems to show Jesus being unwilling to cast evil spirits into hell. This is not consistent with mainline theology. Only today I was talking to a bereaved in-law about the summoner, the phenomenon whereby the dying sometimes see their deceased relatives. It has happened in my family, and it seems common. Again, this is not consistent with mainline theology.

JoHarringtonOct 8, 2014

Apparently he thought so. He sent two friends to fetch me from my house ('Curate wants to see you...'), which was a mile and half walk to the church. I sat on his settee and was lectured about ghosts not being real and me being a bad Christian to 'pretend' to see them. I would be going to Hell if I didn't mend my ways. Blah-de-blah-de-blah.

Given that this was the 80s - at the height of the AIDS scare - there had been a sermon a few weeks before, which was downright homophobic. The vicar actually preached that homosexuality was a sin, with my gay friend sitting right alongside me. I was already feeling a little disillusioned with the church, and the Curate effectively ensured that I'd be walking away after that evening.

Years later, I know that there are good and bad clerics in every religion. It shouldn't reflect upon the religion itself. It sound like you and your son have met more than your fair share of the bad ones too.

frankbeswickSep 28, 2014

What! He had the impertinence to demand this of you? Does he control your perceptions? Is he a feudal superior to summon you like a vassal? I think not. This was a man with an ego incommensurate with his worth. The arrogance of the man reminds me of a case. I was quite irritated by the university chaplain who interviewed my son after Peter went to him to say that he had seen a ghost. Peter had telephoned me and we had discussed it, but the chaplain just said that it was something in his mind and gave no help whatsoever. No it wasn't, the temperature had dropped and a ball in his room was vibrating as it passed. The lad was terrified. I gave him more help than the chaplain did.

When I spent three years in the religious life [I was not very close to ordination] I developed an animosity to clerics who loved power. I had several serious disagreements with other students [and the superior] about authoritarianism, the corruption of religion and the way that some clerics love to hang on to power systems. The superior waved me a fond farewell at the door, happy to see the back of me. You might gather that I am not universally popular with the members of the clergy. Don't think that because I go to mass I am loved by every cleric. I think for myself.

JoHarringtonSep 28, 2014

I was once summoned by a curate, who demanded that I stop seeing ghosts. That was the final nail in the coffin for me, as regards my own Christian faith. I left the Church and went looking for something else, hence Wicca.

frankbeswickSep 28, 2014

Probably in private.

I think that you are on to something [you usually are!] when you suggest that some Christians deny the supernatural because they see heaven and earth as separate. My sister who is a devout, traditionalist Christian, and I disagree on the existence of ghosts, even though mother was a psychically sensitive person who apparently could see them.

JoHarringtonSep 28, 2014

To add to your first paragraph, I could add half a dozen from my own family too. As you said, it's incompatible with all of this that Heaven is elsewhere. Could this be why some Christians deny the supernatural?

I hadn't heard of Odda until now, but he sounds fascinating. I wonder if he told Columcille what he saw.

frankbeswickSep 25, 2014

Your comment on Christian ghosts is spot on, as there are cases when someone good returns. My father, whose father died during the war, was awakened after the war by his father's spirit to say goodbye as he was going on a long journey. I experienced the presence of my late mother when my daughter was admitted to hospital in emergency one night many years ago. [She survived.] This sort of event is incompatible with the notion that heaven is separate from Earth.

Purgatory is mediaeval Catholic, and I do not know of any Jewish teaching on it.

My belief is that it seems strange for God to spend so much effort in making a home for humans on Earth, just to get them of it. The world is our home, and in saying this I am being quite consistent with Scripture. Jesus spoke less about heaven than about the Age to Come, so the ultimate goal for humans is in this world. Thus I regard heaven as not another world, but some state in this one, though I do not understand it. I also see a place for reincarnation, a belief on which I stumbled in my late thirties, before which I did not believe in it. What is to stop God sending souls back to continue their work or development? Many early Christians held this belief.

There are elements in the Bible inconsistent with the standard theology of heaven and hell. Mark chapter 5 shows Jesus confronting evil spirits but being unwilling to cast them into the pit, yet this is inconsistent with the official Christian theology. The idea that hell is a prison is inconsistent with the fact that spirits can be effective in this world.

You might recall the story of Odda, one of Columcille's monks at Iona. As a kind of sacrifice he agreed to be buried alive for three days when the monastery was being founded, and on being dug up again he gave the worrying message that heaven and hell are not what they were said to be. Columcille [Columba] imposed silence on him. But we have sat on this challenging experience for a long time.

JoHarringtonSep 25, 2014

Is it Purgatory that is Jewish?

You've really had me thinking about Heaven, after your last comment. Which is quote a feat! Naturally the dimension shift Heaven feels right to me, because it's so closely aligned to what I believe anyway. But I've been musing on it from a Christian perspective and it still looks right.

It would explain all of those Christian ghosts, who claim to come back once to save someone, then dash off again.

I love that you're so learned about religion. You've taught me so much over the years. I look forward to our cants on things, particularly when the subject is reasonably obscure and we're trying to work things out. *I'm looking at you Tydecho....*

frankbeswickSep 24, 2014

Thanks, Jo. I combine a commitment to orthodoxy on the Jesus story [and regular mass attendance] with quite a degree of theological radicalism on issues and stances that have developed after the Scriptural period, such as views on afterlife. A pagan once said that I am best described as a maverick. I like to think my own thoughts and follow the evidence and the argument where they lead. I have come to the view that the afterlife is far more complicated than the simplistic heave- hell-purgatory position that we were taught; and I also note that the notion of another world is actually late Jewish and was not always present in Scripture.

JoHarringtonSep 23, 2014

Lee - Nevertheless I still feel sad for you and your twin.

And yes, I definitely believe that we go on.

JoHarringtonSep 23, 2014

Frank: Here is one source for the report about the little boy: http://www.abovetopsecret.com/forum/thread1013888/pg1 There are loads on the net though, if you search from the details in there.

I've never heard any Christian say before that Heaven is another dimension on this plane, not some 'other' place. That's totally repositioned the Christian Afterlife into something akin to what I believe too. Fascinating! Thank you.

leeSep 21, 2014

Please do not feel sorry for my twin sister, as she made poor choices in life and hopefully she has accepted them in death!

No matter where the afterlife is... heaven or earth, the most important thing to remember that there is an afterlife and that we do not just die!

frankbeswickSep 21, 2014

On a separate issue, the idea that we go to another world when we die is dubious. The afterlife takes place in another aspect/dimension of this world, or indeed by reincarnation in this one. So I do not believe that heaven is our true home, as many preachers say. Our home is here in this world, before and after death.What matters is that the afterlife be spent with God rather than with his enemies.

frankbeswickSep 21, 2014

Absolutely fascinating. Thanks Jo. In Religious Studies I have made a special point of studying afterlife theories and religious experience, and having stumbled on reincarnation, which theologians say should not be happening, I have really looked into it. Where did you find this information? This is something that I must look up in greater detail.

JoHarringtonSep 21, 2014

On the subject of reincarnation, there was a three year old recently who not only led his parents and police to the place where he'd lived before, but collared his murderer and led them to the body.

frankbeswickSep 21, 2014

There are two ways of approaching odd phenomena: we can start with a preconception of what we think is real and then try to explain away phenomena that don't fit into our world-view; or we can begin with phenomena and expand our world view to explain them all. Only the latter way is a path to wisdom. Sometimes an unexpected event forces us to expand our world view Certain disbelievers in reincarnation have had to come to terms with it when someone in their families comes up with past life memories. [Read the book Soul Survivor for an example of this] or a visit to a place triggers memories of their own, though not all of us who have had the latter experience like talking about it.

JoHarringtonSep 20, 2014

I'm the last person to disbelieve such things. It sounds like it's practically Spook Central in your house though! And I am very sorry to hear about your twin.

leeSep 20, 2014

I totally believe... as a small child my beloved grandmother visited after her death. Since moving into my current home (an old brick church) ., I was awoke to a loud party up on the first floor, I requested they knock it off and heard no more. House guest and myself have seen a small child running through my living quarters and passing through a closed door out of the corner of our eyes. One night after pissing off my deceased twin sister, she woke me up with a finger poking me, when I refused to respond... she tried to push me out of bed. Believe it or NOT! someday you WILL ...

JoHarringtonMar 28, 2014

Now ghosts I can testify towards their existence. I've seen them.

frankbeswickMar 28, 2014

The best evidenced form of life after death is reincarnation. The next best is ghosts.

JoHarringtonMar 28, 2014

That sounds to me like the fire escape door already got left open for me. I just have to live my life in such a way as to deserve entrance.

I love that phrase, 'the certainty of the mediocre'. I'll be using that one now. Thanks!

Ditto with me, Annwn and reincarnation. It's the version that makes the most sense to me, but can I be sure that it'll happen that way? Nope. I'm not dead.

frankbeswickMar 28, 2014

Talking in absolutes! No way. At one college at which I worked the staff used to use the phrase, "The certainty of the mediocre." Small minds see not the horizon and its vast distances.

Am I right about heaven? For me, heaven is a promise and a gift, but I have the view that the theologians have a truncated view of the afterlife that does not do justice to its subtlties. As for leaving the fire escape door open for you, I do not believe that heaven is just for Christians. It is a divine gift for all who are willing to accept it. The present pope says more or less the same thing.

JoHarringtonMar 27, 2014

Shelly - Me too! I love that we can kick ideas around, without anyone evangelizing, talking in absolutes or necessarily taking on board all that's suggested. It's the mix of ideas that might throw up something entirely new, which is fabulous!

JoHarringtonMar 27, 2014

Frank - Beautifully written!

To my mind, the truth is that none of us know for certain what happens to us after we die, until that moment when we die. It might be that you're right and that there is a Heaven (in which case, I hope you'll leave the fire escape door open for me to nip in). Or I'm right, and it's a bit of time chilling out on Annwn, before reincarnation kicks in. Or my Atheist friend is right, and it's dust and nothing much else.

It's daft any of us arguing over things that we're pretty much guessing, and which can't be proved. I respect your view, and I enjoy reading it, so that I can muse on the same. Even if it ultimately doesn't ring right for me, the contemplation might throw up something akin that does.

I certainly agree with the quotation from Hamlet, but then I've seen ghosts. I saw one today. It's a quote that therefore hits close to home.

JoHarringtonMar 27, 2014

Nelda - You'll find no arguments from me there.

ShellyMar 23, 2014

I like what Frankbeswick wrote here. :)

frankbeswickMar 22, 2014

What comes to mind is the quote, "There are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamed of in your philosophy." [Hamlet.] I was raised with a clear idea of the afterlife, but as time has gone on I have come to see that there are mysteries beyond our understanding, and the established views of life after death are most likely inadequate or wrong. Academia and theology have their own limited views, which they proclaim as the authorised truth, and demand acceptance thereof, but there is more to the afterlife than they think. We can only move forward in faith, trust and hope. We grope through the darkness and hope for a blessed landing in a beautiful harbour.

My view is that as God is superintelligent, he is too clever to settle for a simple heaven/hell option, which is somewhat unintelligent. There is therefore more to the afterlife than the theologians with their limited imagination have thought; and I do not believe that the dead have no contact with those that they leave behind.

Nelda_HoxieMar 22, 2014

It's sad to me that people have to be so spiteful, especially in the name of religion.

JoHarringtonMar 27, 2013

Everyone has their beliefs on the afterlife (or lack thereof). I think that's fine. Those who stop asking questions just stagnate. If knowing that we will die is our greatest tragedy as a species, then having a questing mind is our biggest blessing.

I'm not sure if we're the only creatures on Earth to know that we will die though. But it's hard to prove or disprove something like that.

Those who don't believe in what Gary Galka believes see that as a lie. But he's only a liar if he knows it to be an untruth, yet he peddles it anyway. He believes in what he does, so it's his truth. None of us can know what's truth or lies here, until we die and find out.

chris wagnerMar 27, 2013

i forgot to mention to ive read a few aritcles where people are putting mr gary as a lier, a theif and what ever else people can think of to call him by selling the stuff like the mel 8704 saying they dont work.but to me i have to say with me being a mechanic devices like the mel 8704 can pick up things like noices of energy sources us humans cant. tape recorders can pick up things we cant hear sensors can pick up vibrations we cant
.i actually think its amazing that gary came up with something that can let him know when mel is there with him or hear here and so on expecially after a tradgic event take place like that in his life.

chris wagnerMar 27, 2013

to me even though some people disagree but i think god calls everyone home in different ways some die old some die young.as i learned in church we are being tested and the more i thought abt it maybe he called mel home in a tragic way but maybe she was done her test and he wanted her home.just something us as people will never know.

i knew speed had to be involved in it i know if she was going the speed limit she wouldnt have had a accident that bad where it looked like she hit a land mine.and as i said above it could just have been her way of getting called home sometimes we as people get selfish and dont want our friends, family etc leave us before what we would say is before there time.one day we will all meet again just in a different form.but i think before i reach that point in my life when its time for me to go 6 feet under its a mystery that will always have me asking these type of questions.people are the only creatures on earth that know one day we will die.

JoHarringtonMar 26, 2013

It's one of the great tragedies of humanity that we live our lives in the knowledge of our own deaths. But it's also one of our most beautiful wonders that we can do just that. It becomes abstract, something to muse over, as you are doing right now. We manage that without going utterly insane. it's quite impressive, when you consider it.

I'm so sorry to hear about your Grandpa. My condolences to you and your family.

The reality is that none of us can ever know what happens after death. It may be Heaven, or any of the equivalents imagined in myth and religion. It may be that we're Earthbound, continuing on in some form or another. Our energy never destroyed but transformed. Or it may be nothing at all.

The greatest mystery is saved for last, before we get to solve it. There's too much life to explore first.

As for Mel Galka, she wasn't drunk. She had been drinking, but she wasn't over the drinking limit. Nor did she fall asleep. She was driving too fast, trying to keep up with the car in front, which was driven by her friend. She lost control of her car and that was just a very tragic accident.

It could well be that not all things have meaning. They just are, or they just happen. Or it could be that Fate actually is a part of our existence. Again nothing can be proved either way.

chris Mar 26, 2013

even for me being 10 months younger than mel this after life stuff has my attention.it has me wondering abt life and why what looked like a wonderful girls life was cut so short.i know people say she was drinking but i hate to tell those people she could have jus fel asleep behind the wheel usually without someone in the car with me im usually falling asleep that late at night.
and once i heard this story its really stuck with me my grandpa passed away in aug 6 last year which its still hard on me but ive been wondering alot lately what happens when we pass away.even for me going to church its still something that i dont understand.ive never really understood it either that people like mel was taken so soon and the bad guys are still here.

JoHarringtonMar 26, 2013

It's a tragic story all round. I don't think any of us can empathize, unless we had something similar. But the Galka family certainly have my sympathy.

Some people will say anything in order to force their opinion. It's not fair. But all power to Gary Galka for finding a positive in a terrible situation.

chris wagnerMar 26, 2013

Anymore it shouldn't be surprising that people say hurtful things like his daughters death was faked.that's like saying dale earnhardts death was faked. It's a real heart breaking story to see such a young beautiful girls life taken away before what some people say was before her time. I would have trade my life for hers as she seemed to be such a big part of the town.I do believe in the after life and think its amazing wat Gary has done.I'm sure its still hard for him to believe she's gone even after almost 10 years

JoHarringtonFeb 26, 2013

I've seen animal ghosts before now, so I know they exist.

I'm pleased that you've found some healing in this difficult time. :)

ShellyFeb 26, 2013

Yes JoHarrington :) I have been blessed to have experience this it’s so healing. Also, for those who have lost animals too. They too have a soul and often are cared for by our loved ones that have passed. :)

JoHarringtonFeb 25, 2013

Hi Peanut. I'm really sorry to hear about your losses. To lose both parents, so young, and in such short a time period is cruel. I wish you all the best during this harsh time. The story about your mother is beautiful though. Good call. :)

I can understand people being judgmental to a certain extent. If those individuals don't believe in the afterlife, nor do they believe that equipment like this actually works, then all they see is vulnerable people being parted from their money. People like Gary Galka become little more than vultures swooping in on the grief-stricken from that viewpoint.

None of this gives them a mandate for personal attacks. The unfortunate part of that is in the behavior of these people. They are so adamant in their belief that they will pull the rug from under the very people they are purporting to want to help. They're saying, "I don't believe in what you believe. For that reason, I am going to take away your hope. You may be grieving but be rational!"

I dislike evangelism in all its forms. Such responses are nothing to do with helping people. It's about shoving an anti-afterlife point of view down the throats of everyone in the vicinity.

For me, the jury is very much out on whether Gary Galka's equipment works, because I've never used it. But when people are reporting results, then that leaves the field wide open. I do believe in the afterlife, so I'm a little more open-minded on the whole subject.

PeanutFeb 25, 2013

I really just don't understand how people can be so judgemental and down right cruel. The Galka family to me are blessed to have captured what they have letting them know that their sweet angel is near and to have people attack them is just sad. I feel sorry for the people who cannot be open minded and have some compassion. There is alot in this world that cannot be explained, but we are making advancements everyday that help us to understand it all. I suppport the Galka family and especially Gary for his openness to share his family's story. Also it is important to him and a passion, he is not hurting anyone and is helping many!
I have lost both of my parents in the last 2 years at the age of 36. It has been hard and I plan on trying to communicate with them. I feel it would give me some closure and help me to move on with my life more. I will be purchasing some equipment from Gary Galka. I believe and know that we move on, but can still come back to communicate in many ways to our loved ones. I could go on for days about the communication I have already gotten from my mother. Here is a breif one;
I had a really big test for my nursing this day and was sitting in my car telling my mom all about it and told her to tell me it would be ok. I was listening to the radio at the same time. So I went took my test, got back in the truck to come home and when I started it the volume was turned up, on the CD I had in (not the radio) and was playing me and my mom's favorite songs, "baby, your a firework, come on show what your worth" Katie Perry firework. Now I had it on the radio not the CD and the track was track number five and it had be turned up. Huuummm? I said thanks mom I needed that and we sung it together on the ride home.

JoHarringtonFeb 24, 2013

That's a really special things to have happened. Getting reassurance that they go on means that you didn't lose them at all. They're just not so visible anymore.

Have you found that it's allowed you to move on with your own life more?

ShellyFeb 24, 2013

Thank you! I have had a lot of losses, but most all come back one way or another to let me know life after death does exist :) I got an audio my brother-in-law that died last year of ALS (like his father died of) which he said his name when I asked for a name. I couldn’t get any more then that from him though. My husband listened and he said it sounded like Steve his brother.

JoHarringtonFeb 23, 2013

It was a tragedy what happened to Melissa, and how the rumor mill ran out of hand afterwards.

I'm guessing from your comment that you've had first hand experience of EVP. I'm glad that it helped you, and I'm sorry for your own loss.

ShellyFeb 23, 2013

I just saw this on Ghost Adventures the other day as they were playing earlier stuff. My heart was moved. I am sorry for the loss of their beautiful daughter at such a young age. Sad that such heartless stuff was said to them. It’s like living their daughters death over and over through hurtful words. They have enough pain they don’t need to hear it. I was so impressed by the evidence of their daughter through the equipment. I know what this feels like to hear loved ones come through it sure helps heal parts of the heart. Keep up the good work.

JoHarringtonSep 24, 2012

The way that the dead use radio frequencies to contact us is very well chronicled. I'm with you on belief there.

That was a lovely story about your father. Thank you for sharing it. <3

IrenoSep 24, 2012

I believe in the afterlife and this article proves that the 'dead ones' are really contacting us through radio frequency, if not in our dreams in order to relay important messages.
Here's my experience.
I dreamed about my father cutting trees in our farm. I told my sister about it and requested her to go to the place. Fair enough, my mother's relatives already did cut the trees that my father planted when he was still alive.

JoHarringtonSep 24, 2012

i agree with you. I think that our loved ones will try to get a message back, if they can. But i'm also well aware that is merely a belief too. In truth none of us knows what happens when we die. The Atheists could be right and we all turn to dust. In which case, the like of Gary Galka are deluding themselves. But then we could be right and there is an afterlife, then gadgets like these become invaluable.

Thank you for reading and commenting!

JoHarringtonSep 23, 2012

I have no problem with people not believing in an afterlife; nor with those who don't believe that Galka's equipment does what he thinks it does. But I have a lot of issues with people who then shove their beliefs down other people's throats and attack him over it.

There are crazies on all sides.

RagtimelilSep 23, 2012

'Wow. Simply amazing. Unbelievable that anyone would have a problem with that, but there are the crazies out there.
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