This is by far the most common handfasting choice.
It's not even that Wiccans are particularly flighty, it's just that some of them have this ceremony, then later roll up at the registry office.
They've had one spiritual big day, with all the fuss around it; then they've become legally married in the eyes of the National Registrar. They just really can't be bothered with pursuing it further.
Then, of course, there are those who quickly learn that a year is quite enough living with that person, thank you very much.
I've heard of the year and a day handfasting very irreverently referred to as 'the trial run'. The couple are one in the eyes of the God and Goddess, but only for the prescribed time. Once that year and a day is over, then so is the handfasting. They are free to run away as fast as they like, or simply remain together without being handfast.
Or, of course, move onto the next stage, either renewing their vows for life, or opting for another year and a day.
Incidentally, there is a mini union incorporated into this one. The physical handfasting comes when one each of the couple's hands is bound to that of their spouse. It remains that way while they leap over a prone broomstick and their marriage has begun.
I've heard tell that in the old days, the newly weds would remain with one hand each tied together for a day and an hour. It forced them to learn how to work in tandem, right at the outset of their union.
However, I've never known a couple who've done it at any handfasting I've officiated at. They've gone for an hour and a minute instead! (Or even a minute and a second.) Cowards.
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All good, Sam. Nice to see people canting here. :)
Up to you Sam. You can look or you don't need to. No sweat ~ though I think you pre-judge. Also translated into Romanian.
". Megré accepted, but as they began the trek deep into the forest, Anastasia began to shed her clothes…" I think I pass, I had a look at the website and it seriously looks like a scam a la "great new revelation - to get the most benefit out of it buy this sacred xyz" Sorry Jo, for having hitch-hiked your article! SY
Seems ok. that is the USA Site. there is also a UK one.
Plus one must also look at this ~
http://loveforlife.com.au/content/08/...
I'll try - never done this before...
www.ringingcedars.com/books/
There ~ how is that?
@Ralpapajan Linky-link please, if Jo doesn't mind!, sounds extremely interesting ;-) SY
Oops! My mistake! Though it underscores the point that I haven't yet read them.
They do sound interesting though, so I've added them to my mental wish list. Thanks for the head's up.
Er... they aren't novels. Written by Vladimir Megre and translated into many languages Book 1 has sold more than 10 000 000 copies in Russia alone. Many of the precepts contained in the writing have been accepted and followed by the Duma (Russian Parliament) The Earth Day of 21st July each year to celebrate the Dacha Movement (Home grown vegetable areas) that Anastasia propounded has been put into place. Millions of hectares of land have been given by the State in perpetuity to Russian families as she suggested.
These pieces of the Motherland now produce more than the food needed to feed all Russians using the system she has concentrated on. My belief is that these books are the most important of all the books I have ever read. I have tried to write articles about them but the Russian Editor of the English translation, Dr Leo Sharaskin already writes so much, so clearly that all I have done is tell people about them.
Hopefully inspiration will come along one day.
I'm glad to hear it, especially the part about inspiring elements of your book. Sorry to learn of your hassles there.
I've not read the Anastasia novels at all. But I find it fascinating how the same ideas go round and round, regardless of religion or outlook.
As always a superb article. I have a Wiccan relative. Sent her the Links. I have learnt quite a bit from you and am grateful.
Have you read or seen the Anastasia - Ringing Cedars of Russia - books at all?
Chapter 11 of Book 8.2 ~ Rites of Love ~ describes a Vedrus Wedding. I can see very similar 'ideas' as you mention.
I am not a Wiccan - in fact I cannot say what I am because I don't know, having studied most religions in a variety of depths!
Currently I have a novel in course of preparation - another that needs some extra Marketing bits done - I screwed the Meta Data and it was rejected as an Ebook by several places. Then I am also finished a book of short stories but for the final Proof Read and Edit electronically, so am pretty busy. It is however my intention to write another 'Spiritual' novel putting in bits and pieces of a variety of ideas. You have REALLY helped me for which I thank you!