People are becoming more aware of alternatives to the traditional lifestyle of working until retirement age and then hopefully having a few years of good health to travel and play golf before old age sets in.
Sadly not every one reaches retirement age. Several years back I had a close colleague and a family member die in their mid fifties. They had both worked hard at their careers. It got me thinking about whether they would have done things differently if they had known what would happen.
There was also a situation where a lot of people I knew had changes to their pensions which meant they would be worse off. There was a lot of soul-searching and why did I give so much to my job and miss out on my kids' childhood? Ouch.
This all happened before I had children and gave me chance to do some thinking. At the time I was on the career track (accidentally!), working long hours and traveling a lot.
I took a fairly long maternity leave when each of my two children was born and treated them as career breaks. I'm now on my third career break, taking an unpaid sabbatical from my job.
In this article I'll talk about planning for a career break, returning from a career break and how to make the experience positive for both your life and your career.
Share your thoughts on career breaks
Thank you so much for your encouraging words! I will be in touch very soon. You are one of my inspirations! I see people like you actually making it happen and I feel like there is hope. It has been so hard for me the past year or so without my career. I feel like I have lost a huge part of myself. I have been able to be available for my children (two of which are ADHD) but I am still missing something in my life. Therefore, I am not happy. If mom isn't happy then no one is really happy.....right? So glad I found your article as it has inspired me to brainstorm about this online thing again. It is something I truly enjoy doing and it would be great if I could make a living doing it! Will be in touch with you soon:)
Hi Angel, yes I can definitely see where you are coming from! As it happens I'm due to return to my proper job soon. But I'm not going, I'm resigning. My online business has taken off nicely so I don't feel the need to return to my job financially. I now have time to volunteer at my kids' school and spend time with them after school each day and I don't panic about meetings if one of them is unwell. I don't feel like I've killed a career, I feel like I've opened up the possibility of earning money in different ways for the rest of my working life.
Feel free to PM me if you want to discuss your options. I'm sure someone with your background could do very well working online.
This article really hits home with me. I resigned from my job and career in October 2011 to stay at home with my four kids for awhile. I had gotten to the point where I couldn't keep up with everything anymore. I traveled a lot and my job required many late nights working from home. I had to say "time out". I thought it was what I needed. However, over the past year I have found myself becoming very depressed and having those feelings you mention of feeling purposeless. I decided to go back to school in August to learn some things that would take my career in a different direction. I am almost ready to start the job search in that new direction. I can't help but wonder if I am making the right decision. I would love to be able to create my own business and work from home. To have the flexibility that is needed with four children and family. To be able to enjoy everyday....instead of stressing about getting everything done. Sorry for the long post.... but your article is making me think more about taking my interests and things I am passionate about to a level that I can make money from them. I want to feel like I have a purpose and am contributing but dread the stress of working outside of the home while raising four children.
Thanks whitemoss and katie. Yes, it's definitely easy to just keep going on the same path. I could so easily have done that. I'm so glad a stopped and thought and made conscious decisions about what I want from life.
What a great bit of thought, I feel the need to make a career shift. This is a very inspiring piece. This sort of thinking could be of good use on a regular basis, in life in general, pondering what we could be doing differently. Refreshing as I can't ever imagine not working, taking a break yes indeed.
Change is good! It's so easy to keep on doing the same old thing.
That sounds right Sheri! I think a lot of people just do the default and get into a career and stay there without even considering the alternatives. I actually enjoy my job but it's overwhelming. Now I've got time to enjoy other things and actually live life rather than just keeping things together. My career break might give me the energy to go back for another round, or I might find that I'd rather take a longer break or change direction completely.
I'm glad you're enjoying your semi-retirement.
It is so important these days, I think, to take breaks - some people manage to work less stressfully than others and so may not feel the need for the occasional "sabbatical". I am thoroughly enjoying being semi-retired. At 60, I feel like it is a career break as I have another 40 years left and 40 years is a whole career! Right?