Some people say you should keep romance in your marriage by staying fresh, vibrant, mysterious, unpredictable, surprising!
Actually, there's a lot to be said for predictability. Been married for a little more than three decades. Hasn't been all sunshine but we've weathered the storms and very much enjoyed the rainbows after the rain ... uh ... the floods ... the deluge!
The older you get, the more you appreciate the "expected comfort zone", i.e. habits (or peculiarities) developed over years and years and years of living together.
Like enjoying personalized jam sessions every Friday night!
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@sheilamarie - Evert try to see if you can sing "I know" as many times as Bill Withers did? I run of out of breath. :) Thanks for stopping by!
I love your Friday night tradition! Your music choices have brought back happy memories. Now I'm singing "Ain't No Sunshine When She's Gone"!
I know I know I know I know . . .
:) My goodness! Just had a flashback!
@EmmaRose - When he was younger he was a seriously mean guitar player. His health is failing him these days. His heart is weakened and it is too much of a strain for him to hold the chords down now. But I do have fond memories of him playing songs like "Ain't No Sunshine When She's Gone" by Bill Withers and some of his favorite calypso tunes (he's from The Bahamas).