Does Homeschooling Create Shyness? Homeschooling and Socialization
Wow, Carma, you and I are a WHOLE lot alike. I'm an introvert and was very, very shy as a child. I have to wonder after reading this if I might have been just an introvert and not shy, but treated as shy and learned to act that way simply because of a more outgoing extended family. Guess I'll never know. I do know that one of my children was forever being called shy, which he really was not, and he and I both disliked that people called him shy. He was just very introverted and disliked "foolish behavior" in others from a very early age, thus withdrawing from large groups, giving the impression of being shy. He's not at all shy today, and was not in any of his college classes (to the delight of his professors), though he still dislikes foolish behavior (also to the delight of his professors!). I'm just glad our children were both able to work through their personalities with more supervision from us in a homeschooling environment, not being forced into certain situations until they were more ready. Long answer - sorry. This is a great article. Thank you!
Susan52, Jun 10, 2011